Our last trip, Dec/Jan, my boys were 6 and 8. We stayed at BCV and SSR.
SSR we hardly left. Everything was right there! We played shuffleboard, basketball, tennis, Community Hall has PS2, scheduled activities, Ping Pong, and other kids to play with. They made friends and Com. Hall was a great place for them to meet up.
The pool is excellent. They really liked playing under the waterfall. Not too many pools have that feature and only a child would figure out it was to be played under. I just thought it was for effect! LOL!
We rode the boat to DTD and my DS6 was honorary boat Captain and received a button. The real Captain let him sound the horn and everyone clapped

I know, he's a genius!
We really enjoyed the Carriage Ride, but we had Fritz the horse, who was really pretty. Maybe we will get Dan next time.
The refillable mugs were great, they spent alot of time at Com. Hall and they could go out to the pool area and refill their mugs.
Then there is DTD,
Goofy's Candy shop at DTD is a fun place, as well as
Lego Land, McD's, Mr Potato Head store at Upon a Toy, Disney Quest etc.
You really cant go wrong at any of them, children or not.