Sad news!!!

[tinkgrl]

Hi,

Sorry for your loss!!!! Pixie dust for you & your family!

Allison

 

[KristiKelly]

Disney Ron, Sorry to hear about you & your wife. No advice just

 

[calypso*a*go-go]

I appreciate the backhanded compliment! You know me: I just can't help letting the facts get in the way of a good, juicy opinion.

Sigh. Thank you for making my point, though!

Yes, I did help you prove the point that there are two sides to every story. In this case, that fact is that nothing I posted regarding your comments were intended as a compliment. But that's okay -- you're entitled to your own opinion...which is the point I was trying to make.

Now, enough of hijacking the OP's thread (sorry Ron!).

 

[spiceycat]

sorry folks - but for a mother to turn her back on her kids is wrong.

She should have NEVER have kids in the beginning - rather than leave them.

these children will have problems because of this women. and it is not their fault!!!

this is my opinion and how I was raised. Yours can be different.

 

[CRSNDSNY]

I'm sorry to hear this sad news Ron. Keep your positive outlook and focus on your kids.

We're here for you.

 

[Deesknee]

God bless all.

 

[Patty3]

When I posted, "She is the loser", I meant it. For a Mother to walk out on her children, she is losing out on the enjoment of watching them grow and being a part of their daily lives. I do not know what you would call that, but she is definitely the loser in this situation no matter what her situation is.
Ron, I wish you and the children only the best.

 

[Kelly Nelly]

Ron what you need to do is get yourself to the gym and pump yourself up, become a real stud muffin, and it will make your ex really jealous.

 

[goldilocks_63]

I'm sorry for the pain you and your family are going thru....

When you are done grieving, let us know, and we can start fixing you up!

Goldi

 

[Laurajean1014]

On a funny side:

Just think of it as "not her greatest weight loss, but yours."

 

[dianeschlicht]

So sorry you and the kids had to go through this during the Holidays. Prayers for strength and understanding for all of you. I'm glad three of you are going to be able to look forward to some fun Disney times!

 

[klmnluvdis]

sorry ron...
good one laurajean
life will get better
lori

 

[twotoohappy]

looks like I arrive at SSR a day ahead of you in April.

Maybe our families could say hello!

Disney Ron

Hey Disney Ron.
to you and your kids and.... your countdown clocks look like mine

 

[jbwolffiv]

Sorry to hear that! Glad the kids want to stay and you get to keep DVC!

 

[Dean]

We'll try to entertain you to keep your mind off some of the pain. Our prayers are with you.

 

[3DisneyNUTS]

I hate to post this to my DVC friends, but I have sad news. My wife of 19 years is leaving me. She said she doesn't love me anymore, so I told her to do what she has to do.

Our daughter is 18 and our son is 15, and both kids want to stay with me.

We were in DW in August and while there my wife wanted to purchase SSR which we did. Two weeks after arriving home we bought into the VWL, then 2 months later she tells me she's leaving.

The good news besides the fact I'm getting the house and kids, is that I'm also keeping SSR and the VWL. I'm just going to have to put them both in my name only.

It's been a tough holiday this year, but I'm getting better with each day, and can't wait for the kids and mine first trips home to SSR and the VWL in April and August.

BTW, a year ago my wife had gastric bypass surgery and lost 100 pounds and her personality has changed tremendously. She's not the same person I fell in love with 20 years ago, and her own sister told me the same thing. I've never seen a sweeter more down to earth person, become so self absorbed in all my life. Too bad!

Thanks for reading and sorry for venting!

Reading these boards have helped me cope each day so thanks everyone.

Disney Ron

Well Ron all I can say is she "don't know what she's got till it's gone" With her new attitude she will probably attract jerks and come back to you in a year realizing she made a mistake. So just be strong for the kids move on since you don't have a choice right now and try to be happy. I know it will be hard but it is an awesome guy that wants his kids and it is pretty lousy that she is prepared to walk away from her family. Just know that sometimes it takes that to realize what you had.

 

[manning]

From what you've said, it sounds as if this personality change has coincided with the operation and subsequent results.

The same thing happened to my next door neighbor with his wife. A complete 180 degree change. She almost lost her life in child birth.