I am so sorry to hear of both your losses.
Please know that all of our thoughts are with you & your families at this sad time.
I wish I had some eloquent words, but alas, I am but a simple woman who can just sit with you and be a friend to you at this most difficult time.
I know we are hours apart, but if there is anything I can do or provide, please, feel free to call on me.
Take care,
hag