It says that I am upper class, but I will tell you that is not how I feel. If anything, I would argue that we are maybe upper middle class at best. We are also just at the start of building our family, so when you put us as a family of 4, rather than 2, we fall into the middle class. Right now a lot of our take-home pay has been going towards accelerating our debts and increasing our savings. We make a good combined salary, but we are putting a lot of money each month toward extra payments on our mortgage and car loans, plus lots of money going towards savings each month like our emergency fund, baby expenses and retirement savings. This is easier I guess because it is just the two of us right now, but baby will be here in October and the ultimate goal will be 2 kids.
DH and I are currently working out how we will find enough money in our budget to pay for child care next year. And we just talked this morning about where we might find money to put away towards college savings too, though that might be hard for the first few years of baby's life. We don't live any kind of lavish life style. We do have a nice home, but it was a pretty modest price compared to homes in many areas of the country (and Michigan had a very down market in 2012 when I purchased). We rarely eat out. We vacation once per year for a week and nothing extravagant. We don't spend much on gadgets or hobbies. I guess we are more focused on building wealth now so we worry less later, but that means we are living a very middle class lifestyle even if Pew thinks we are upper class.
I agree with
@havaneselover about wealth playing a part which the tool doesn't take into account. If someone has a big inheritance or trust fund, that would make a big difference in wealth that isn't necessarily translated into salary. Salary isn't everything and how you use your salary will have a big impact on the lifestyle that you lead. You can make a lot of money, but spend it all and not build any wealth. If you have ever read, "The Millionaire Next Door," you know that a large percentage of those with substantial wealth are people with middle and upper middle class salaries, but frugal spending habits. They have modest homes, drive nice but not luxury cars (often times used), maintain a regular family budget and save 20+ percent of their annual income. That is the model we have been trying to emulate. By living far below our means, I believe we will be able to fulfill our greatest desires, including funding college for our kids and having a comfortable retirement.