If you do go, you can request no butter, extra butter, or lightly buttered. I haven't asked for any of these as the regular amount of butter is just fine. I've hardly noticed it on the plate and you definitely don't taste it. My fiancé usually gets extra butter and I really can't tell the difference. Our steaks, as I mentioned before, have always tasted great, prepared perfectly, and were never bad pieces of meat (I always get a petite filet and others in our party get filets or t-bones). I really think a bad experience was a fluke as I eat there often and have never had a bad steak or side dish. Also, their desserts are great, flourless chocolate cake and the sour cream cheesecake especially. Since I live in northern NJ part of the year, I too have eaten at Peter Luger's, Morton's, The Palm, etc. I was not impressed at all with The Palm and actually had rotten OJ, a wilted salad, and my uncle was actually sick after eating there. This was at the one in NYC and I tried it again in both DC and Puerto Rico and though I did not get any rotten food, it still was not that tasty. So you guys should definitely go back and give it another chance, and remember you can ask for no butter!