Hi,
First of all- I wish that I felt I had the words to express how sorry I am for your loss. That is something that nobody, ever, should have to go through.
Secondly, I would suggest removing your email address from your post (I scrubbed it out of the quoted post). There are nasty bots that scour forums for the sole purpose of finding email addresses to spam and the amount of junk and phishing emails that will flood your inbox is not a nice thing!
Third, start here for brokers:
http://www.disboards.com/threads/a-...-to-any-business-you-wish-to-mention.3039176/
The brokers whose websites are posted there are excellent, reputable, and knowledgeable. There are expert members on this forum who will happily help you every step of the way- you should also read through the DVC Information Centre linked at the top of this forum.
Good luck

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