Rob and Scott's Big Fat Gay Disney Wedding-TR Pg 92; Photo Update pg 133

Invitation update!

As you all knew, we sent out our invitations on Monday. Much to our surprise, most of our invitees got the invitations on Wednesday. Our 5 year annivesary! (We figured the locals might get them that soon, but even folks in other states did). Talk about great timing!

AND we got our first 3 RSVPs back today! :woohoo:

How exciting! Getting those RSVPs are so fun. Gosh, I love to plan things. I am soooo OCD about it-it is scary to those arond me-okay more like funny!:rotfl: Anyway, seating charts, flower arrangements, catering....luv it! Just found out I am in charge of my Father-in-laws 60th birthday party. Let the fun begin!! Not as fun as a wedding, but still fun.
 
How exciting! Getting those RSVPs are so fun. Gosh, I love to plan things. I am soooo OCD about it-it is scary to those arond me-okay more like funny!:rotfl: Anyway, seating charts, flower arrangements, catering....luv it! Just found out I am in charge of my Father-in-laws 60th birthday party. Let the fun begin!! Not as fun as a wedding, but still fun.

Seating Charts? :scared1:

Oh, HEck No! I'm not putting myself through that nightmare! :rotfl: They're all on their own to find people they like and sit with them! :thumbsup2

We're not even doing a head table, or a "sweetheart table" either. Not our style. We'll be sitting at one of the round tables on the dance floor with family and the wedding party (which is mostly family, of course ;) ).

Have fun planning the birthday party! :hyper:
 
Well, we've made it through our SIXTH Gay Days Weekend, and since we're "engaged" this year, we decided we'd show off. Check the pictures!

Arriving first thing in the morning.
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Hold on!
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What do we wish for now? We've already got Happily Ever After taken care of!
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(Actually, it's a personal tradition to toss a coin into the wishing well whenever I go to MK. To say thanks for a wish that came true once upon a time.)


Tired on the TTA
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Wearing the groom hats, got us noticed by a lot of people. Including the people behind the "podismycopilot" podcast. As we were standing in line with our friends for the Country Bear Jamboree, this lady comes running up to us, followed by a couple of guys. We figured they wanted to take our picture (it had happened a few times that day). Not quite. They asked us if they could talk to us for their podcast. We agreed, and the lady turned to the camera and said "As promised, the first couple wearing groom/groom ears or bride/bride ears get's the Target gift card!" She then turned to us a handed us a Target Giftcard with a wedding cake on it, wished us many happy years together, thanked us and walked away. The whole thing took less than 5 minutes. It was SO COOL! :hyper: (Once the podcast is up, I'll post the link.) After that we couldn't stop grinning. A lot of people congratulated us all day long. We had a GREAT day!
 
Geesh, I'm all verklempt now! :)

It's always a pleasure seeing you guys!
 

OMG, I had no idea that was you guys! The Pod is My Copilot trio are friends of mine and we spent the entire weekend together (along with the rest of a rather large group of gay podcasters). The rest of us hung back as they made their presentation, but chances are I'll be appearing on the video with y'all. :woohoo:
 
OMG, I had no idea that was you guys! The Pod is My Copilot trio are friends of mine and we spent the entire weekend together (along with the rest of a rather large group of gay podcasters). The rest of us hung back as they made their presentation, but chances are I'll be appearing on the video with y'all. :woohoo:

:rotfl2: I visited their website yesterday and followed the link to the goings on of the gay podcasters group and saw your pictures. I wondered if you'd been with them at that time. If I'd seen you, I'd probably run over to introduce myself. :rotfl:

I also discovered that you're friends with a big ol' fish that two other friends of ours are friends with. If you know what I mean. ;)
 
What a perfect couple!
Ya know how you can tell?...
You both seem to want the same things in life.
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The Chicken Dance!
 
What a perfect couple!
Ya know how you can tell?...
You both seem to want the same things in life.
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The Chicken Dance!

Maybe not today.


Maybe not tomorrow.


But someday.


You will pay for this.



:lmao:

Wally, you are a SICK TICKET! With far too much time on your hands!
 
Maybe not today.


Maybe not tomorrow.


But someday.


You will pay for this.



:lmao:

Wally, you are a SICK TICKET! With far too much time on your hands!

Call it a wedding gift!
Suitable for Framing.

And how do you know What I got on or in my hands?
 
Suitable for framing, or suitable for FLAMING? :confused3

You'll be flaming whilst you are a framen'. ;)

Well at least I think it should get a "place of honor"
in the wedding scrapbook ::yes::
 
I just wanted to say the pics are awesome. It brought back so many memories of my trip in December that I started crying while showing the pictures to my bf. Those hats have a way of making good things happen, that's for sure!
 
I just wanted to say the pics are awesome. It brought back so many memories of my trip in December that I started crying while showing the pictures to my bf. Those hats have a way of making good things happen, that's for sure!

Thank you! I can't decide if I like the one at the wishing well or the "Fosse" moment on Splash Mountain the best. :rotfl:

One of the brides over on the Weddings and Honeymoon boards referred to the bride and groom hats as "free dessert magnets". :rotfl2:

Which is part of why I was so giddy about the nice folks from "Pod is my Copilot" stopping us to give us the gift card. :lmao:

By the way, aren't you going to be around PI this week? Do you know what nights yet?
 
I just wanted to say the pics are awesome. It brought back so many memories of my trip in December that I started crying while showing the pictures to my bf. Those hats have a way of making good things happen, that's for sure!

I've alway found a pillbox and a big old pair of hoop earring
yield much the same effect. ::yes::

Dang :eek: Now I've given away part of rpmdfw going away outfit!
Sorry doll. :(
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I'm meeting with my Disneyland planner this Friday, can't wait! Maybe once that happens I'll start a journal here and on the wedding boards so I have an outlet for all this pent up excitement about the wedding. A year seems like such a long time and not long enough at the same time. :woohoo:

KingLouie, how did your meeting at Disneyland go? We'd love to hear!

Trust me when I say that the year goes by REALLY fast. The first meeting with Disney was a real blast, too. I haven't even gone over the details of the site visit and early planning on here. Maybe I should do that. :rotfl2:
So, what are these details you are holding out on us? LOL! When you are ready.

Okay, now that Gay Days is past, and "End of Month" nonsense is tapering off here at work, I've got some time to go into the early planning stages that we went through a year ago.

It all started when we heard in April that Disney was changing their policy concerning commitment ceremonies. Scott and I started talking about actually meeting with the DFTW folks. Prior to the announcement, we'd actually considered booking a "Family Reunion" where we'd have a small ceremony as part of the "party". When we were doing our site visit with our Wedding Consultant, he mentioned that several people had done just that.

So, I called the number on the DFTW website and they let us know that if our date was within 18 months, we could meet with someone (a Wedding Consultant) and look at venues and discuss preliminaries. As I've previously mentioned, Scott and I had already decided that we didn't want to have our ceremony during Gay Days (too hot, too crowded, etc.), and really wanted to have people experience the Epcot International Food & Wine Festival. We also had some thoughts about potential ceremony locations and wanted to avoid Halloween decorations, if at all possible, so we settled on the last weekend in September/first weekend of F&WF and scheduled our appointment for June 15, 2007.

We walked into "Franck's" and met with the Wedding Consultant that they'd assigned us. Anywhere else, he'd be called something like "Sales Manager", because he'll be our contact up until our contract is signed and we've got everything booked. Then he'll turn us over to an Event Planner who will then work with us through the completion of our event.

We sat down with him and discussed quite a bit about what our "vision" was for our ceremony and the reception. We also talked about room blocks, and minimum requirements, etc. We discussed rehearsal dinner options (because it's a destination wedding for a lot of people, they do a welcome party for all of thier out of town guests, we're doing something else.) He explained that our preferred ceremony location is considered a theme park location, and he'd have to check on whether or not they could book it, and if it would hold as many people as we anticipated coming to our ceremony, etc. We discussed reception options as well. He mentioned "The Great Movie Ride" as I mentioned before. I told him that I thought holding a gay wedding in the "Wizard of Oz" set was a bit too "over the top" for us. (My actual words were "We're gay, but we're not THAT gay!" :lmao: ) We then went off in a company car to check out the ballrooms at the Boardwalk and Atlantic Dance Hall. One look at ADH and it was a done deal. Scott said "this is it" and I just nodded in agreement. It's perfect for us. So he penciled us in, and told us he'd let us know if our ceremony location was possible, and that was pretty much it.

Next up, what happens when we heard back from him.
 
Hey Hey!

It went great! I am so excited, we set a day for May 24 of next year, and now I've become an obsessive loon.

I actually think I'm going to start a planning journal like the brides do on the weddings board and go step by step from the start.

I will try to start that in the next few days, either here or the weddings board, so I can tell you guys everything, but more importantly so I have somewhere to direct all this obsessive energy.

My current dilemmas are finalizing my guest list and centerpieces. I'm actually so obsessive I had trouble sleeping the first few nights after we were engaged! Wish me luck, its going to be a long year. . .
 
Hey Hey!

It went great! I am so excited, we set a day for May 24 of next year, and now I've become an obsessive loon.

I actually think I'm going to start a planning journal like the brides do on the weddings board and go step by step from the start.

I will try to start that in the next few days, either here or the weddings board, so I can tell you guys everything, but more importantly so I have somewhere to direct all this obsessive energy.

My current dilemmas are finalizing my guest list and centerpieces. I'm actually so obsessive I had trouble sleeping the first few nights after we were engaged! Wish me luck, its going to be a long year. . .


Welcome to the club! :rotfl:

Congratulations!

Take a deep breath. For me, the key to managing the obsession has been lists. And spreadsheets. And more lists.

And the year goes by MUCH more quickly than you'd expect.

So, where are you having your ceremony and reception?
 












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