minkydog
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Wow, that sucks! In the hospital where I used to work we had many male nurses. I wonder if they felt that way?? It would make me very angry if they were not treated well by the MDs.
We have to get over the old idea that nurses are just comforters who change bedpans and stick thermometers in patients mouths, a traditional womanly nurturing thing. Nurses today are what I like to call Doctors-lite. They really are just one step below a doctor with all the knowledge of meds and wound care and general medical information that they have. Nurses walk on water as far as I'm concerned. And not to be controversial, but I actually prefer male nurses, I think because I subconsciously want to have the opportunity to treat them with the respect they deserve. I just wish we'd stop calling them "male nurses" instead of just nurses.
I have a nurse friend who's an MMA fighter whose been on Pay per view TV, in case anyone thinks there's a certain untrue stereotype about them. His name is Philip Nover if you've ever heard of him.
When my nephew decided he wanted to major in nursing, his parents (my sister and BIL) had a fit. They told that only gay men went into nursing, except they used a much more degrading term. They tried to tell him that they wouldn't pay for his education, except that he had a prepaid tuition waiver. One day I sat down with him and said, "Look. Your parents are idiots. Nursing will not make you gay. There are plenty of guys doing great work in ERs, peds, ICE, even in OB/GYN. If you want to be a nurse, do it. If they don't want to pay, do it anyway." If you want to be a nurse, you can find a way.
. Some people are actually in the medical profession because they want to make a difference. It should not matter what title you have RN/MD compassion and wanting to make a difference in the life of someone else is all that should really matter. I've been blessed to have experience in both professions and I truly believe that the training from nursing made me be a better physician.



