Haha! My husband didn't even go; I went with a friend. With 5 youngish kids, getting time off together is hard. We have gone to
Disneyland twice together as a couple without the kids in the last 3 years, and they survived.

We just tell them that it's important for moms and dads to do fun things together without kids if they want to stay married.

And my daughter looooooves Disney (and has been to Disneyland twice in the last year with me) so she was excited that I got to go, even if she would have loved to go with me. She has seen that I've been sad that I only got to use my very first AP for 4 months before Disneyland shut down!