We had a great stay at the Dolphin last year, and will be there again in May, and I agree with crs7568, in that if it's not negotiable, then just add it to the total room cost. Heck, even with the Govt. Rate, it would come out to be $154/night with taxes, and that still is a heck of a lot cheaper than the $325 rack rates.
I don't like to complain, especially because we really like the Swan/Dolphin, but we aren't coffee drinkers, we don't use the gym while on vacation, we hopefully won't need to make any phone calls, and although the paper is nice, I can live without it.
So, the way it is now, it does make me feel that I'm throwing away a total of $80 for a resort fee for things that I won't even be using.