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In the next year or two I will probably need to go back to work--kids will be heading off to college sooner than we realize and we will need the extra money. I am just not sure how to even go about finding a job that I will be able to do.
I have severe issues with my feet that affect my stamina and cause terrible pain if I am on my feet for more than about 10 minutes. I really would only be able to do a desk job, that required mostly sitting. I can't do much lifting or climbing stairs or physical tasks because the years of not walking properly have affected my hips and back. If I had to do much walking I could use my scooter but I really prefer not to. I don't use my issues as a crutch or an excuse, but I am just being practical about what I can and can't do. Doesn't do me or an employer much good if I try to push myself outside of where I am able.
Because of my feet issues I am also limited to only wearing tennis shoes. That will look great at a job interview! There is no way that I can wear anything but so just trying to wear dress shoes for an hour or so interview is not even an option
Then you have my skill set. None.
I have a BS in Early Childhood Education. I am qualified to teach preschoolers and early elementary grades. But I in no way have the stamina to do that. I am actually a substitute teacher for our district, and I love doing that, but one day of work is very painful and requires a few days of rest off my feet to recover. And I am not getting enough work to provide the extra money we need anyway. Even if I were in perfect health, I don't want to go back to full time teaching at all.
That is pretty much all I have done is teach. I have had a few easy retail jobs but nothing long lasting and all of those were on my feet full time. My total work experience is actually pretty short as most of my jobs were short term. I think the longest I have worked anywhere was one school year teaching not long after college.
I have zero secretarial skills. I can type but not fast or well. I don't have experience with a multi line phones, I am terrible with math/ numbers--no accounting or finance. I am familiar with Word and Excel but not very in depth-- just what I use as a SAHM and school volunteer.
I do have "strong oral and written communication" skills. I learn fast and am an eager learner, and think that I am pretty intelligent and capable. I have a great attitude, work well with others, can take direction well and can take the initiative on things. I am friendly, responsible and reliable. I am a great employee as a person, but I just don't have the skills/background to qualify for much. And of course my resume is practically non existent-- any job I used to have is for a location or people that are no longer around. I can put together something on my practical experience as a volunteer for several different organizations in the last 15 years and hope that is enough.
I figure that maybe I can use this year to see what is available, what I can do, and try to get some skills needed. I think I can take some free classes with the school district on computer skills.
Where does a 40 year old, disabled woman with no experience in anything look to find a job? And how do I handle going to an interview in a professional outfit and tennis shoes?
ETA: No idea if it matters or not but I don't have any official "disabled" designation (is there one?)-- other than the HC parking tag! I do have a supportive dr that would assist in any way if needed.
I have severe issues with my feet that affect my stamina and cause terrible pain if I am on my feet for more than about 10 minutes. I really would only be able to do a desk job, that required mostly sitting. I can't do much lifting or climbing stairs or physical tasks because the years of not walking properly have affected my hips and back. If I had to do much walking I could use my scooter but I really prefer not to. I don't use my issues as a crutch or an excuse, but I am just being practical about what I can and can't do. Doesn't do me or an employer much good if I try to push myself outside of where I am able.
Because of my feet issues I am also limited to only wearing tennis shoes. That will look great at a job interview! There is no way that I can wear anything but so just trying to wear dress shoes for an hour or so interview is not even an option
Then you have my skill set. None.
I have a BS in Early Childhood Education. I am qualified to teach preschoolers and early elementary grades. But I in no way have the stamina to do that. I am actually a substitute teacher for our district, and I love doing that, but one day of work is very painful and requires a few days of rest off my feet to recover. And I am not getting enough work to provide the extra money we need anyway. Even if I were in perfect health, I don't want to go back to full time teaching at all.
That is pretty much all I have done is teach. I have had a few easy retail jobs but nothing long lasting and all of those were on my feet full time. My total work experience is actually pretty short as most of my jobs were short term. I think the longest I have worked anywhere was one school year teaching not long after college.
I have zero secretarial skills. I can type but not fast or well. I don't have experience with a multi line phones, I am terrible with math/ numbers--no accounting or finance. I am familiar with Word and Excel but not very in depth-- just what I use as a SAHM and school volunteer.
I do have "strong oral and written communication" skills. I learn fast and am an eager learner, and think that I am pretty intelligent and capable. I have a great attitude, work well with others, can take direction well and can take the initiative on things. I am friendly, responsible and reliable. I am a great employee as a person, but I just don't have the skills/background to qualify for much. And of course my resume is practically non existent-- any job I used to have is for a location or people that are no longer around. I can put together something on my practical experience as a volunteer for several different organizations in the last 15 years and hope that is enough.
I figure that maybe I can use this year to see what is available, what I can do, and try to get some skills needed. I think I can take some free classes with the school district on computer skills.
Where does a 40 year old, disabled woman with no experience in anything look to find a job? And how do I handle going to an interview in a professional outfit and tennis shoes?
ETA: No idea if it matters or not but I don't have any official "disabled" designation (is there one?)-- other than the HC parking tag! I do have a supportive dr that would assist in any way if needed.
Not really, but math is not a strong area for me, and I can't even balance my own checkbook without screwing it up.