Colleen27
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What did people do in the past? They lived with family, they grew their own food, they saved for small luxuries, they walked from place to place, they cooked at home, and they did without.
I think people are going to have to go back to those frugal lifestyles. For many people, the idea of a nuclear family living in it's own house is no longer going to be feasible.
But the world has changed since then. One of the big worries that I see coming is that we are already in a position where 1/3 of the population cannot afford health insurance (uninsured + medicaid + medicare) and that number grows every year. No amount of frugality is going to free up the $10K+ that a health insurance policy costs these days as more and more families find themselves living on minimum wage. When DH was a kid and his family was broke they bartered with the doctor for his services; now that same office won't even take uninsured patients.
And back then families didn't have to deal with the spectre of CPS involvement based on living arrangements, or code requirements limiting their ability to share smaller dwellings. Even growing your own food isn't the option it once was. My grandmother grew a huge garden, fully half of her backyard, and kept hens for eggs; my mother lives in that same community and has to abide by rules limiting food gardens to 1% of the total lot size and of course "livestock" is forbidden. Going back to the way things were only works if the rest of the world turns back the clock, and that's not going to happen. That's the big challenge facing American families now - how to somehow live like our Depression-era grandparents in this modern environment of rules and bureaucracies.