Hi!! Don't rule out a Disney wedding!! There are plenty of us who have been able to get married married at WDW for a reasonable amount of money!
Definitely look into a Swan and Dolphin wedding and a Disney Fairytale Wedding Escape or Memories collection! Feel free to PM me or any of the Swan brides about getting married at the Swan and Dolphin-- it's on Disney property and a great option!
If you decide to skip the Disney wedding, there are so many fun ways to incorporate Disney into your day!
Favors, centerpieces, invites, music, guest book, etc!
Let us know what you decide to do.