But, I have found that if you climb on top of the potty and put one foot on either side on the potty hole rim and get a firm footing, I'm actually quite safe. And you know, using the potty is a great time to socialize? You simply, you look over to the stall next to you and you have a right chat with your neighbour, " Oh! Hello there good sir! First time using the potty too aye? Good luck my man!" And then simply squat like so and I do my business in my diaper like usual. Then, I undo the side straps and the diaper falls into the potty.