Agree Dean on Lifeguards helping with unruly behavior. Instead of ethics, we can point to many ethical issues that hit every generation, I will say appropriate behavior, common courtesy, as well as civility is lacking. That conversation can take on a website by itself. Of course the Parents of the 60's probably said the same thing about the younger generation. At the sametime I think the older generations sometimes forget to be flexible or to just enjoy. We become more rigid and more black and white as we age. If I tell my in-laws we are leaving for dinner at 6:30 and my wife is not ready at 6:29 they are frantic. While on vacation it is OK to slow it down, relax, and if someone's behavior is not impacting you, to let it go. In life or on these boards we all sometimes get a little too righteous (not saying you are), people are posting that they would slam shut the pool gates at the Poly and not let someone in if they think they may not be staying at the resort (mind you the person behind them might be a guest there). There are others who are going to write to member Services if kids are throwing a ball or splashing in the pool. Appropriate behavior, common courtesy and civility can be issues at both ends of the generations. I feel very fortunate to be able to say that I see my kids, now young adults, as ones who are polite, are courteous towards others and have high standards of ethics (probably from their Mom

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We could get into a whole societal discussion on the impact of family and ethics/behavior etc but I have gone off topic far enough