So now everyone sitting needs to have food? And if a family of 5 only has meals for two, the other three can't sit? THAT I disagree with.
I also think that if the family of 5 is at a table for 8 and two more of their party show up, what's the harm of the party of two joining them? If it's a table for 5 and there's no extra chairs, different story.
The situation you provide makes it sound like Disney is more interested in making money by selling food (everyone needs to buy food to sit here) than making things easier for guests.
... I loved that a table was found for us, and we were guaranteed a place to sit.
... except you left out about food getting cold while waiting for a table as you stand in line waiting for people to finish!
...Our family has eaten on the cement, we have eaten with our trays on trash cans, ect. ...
But didn't you see how busy it was before you got that food and know that was possible? I mean, I'm not saying it was ideal or something I wish on people, it just shouldn't have been that shocking, right? You went ahead and ordered knowing it was a zoo and super full; the idea that you might not find a table had to have crossed your mind, but you decided to take your chances and eat anyway. It was an informed choice. I mean, if I walk into a restaurant with a line out the door and they say it's gonna' be an hour wait I have the choice to sit down and wait, and hope it's less, knowing it may be more, or just walk out. If I sit down and it's an hour wait, I can't really complain, because I saw for myself how busy it was. (Same would go with any order-at-the-window type restaurant; if everything's full when you get in line, silly to assume there will be something open when you get done ordering.)
My whole point wasn't that I "deserve" a table prior to ordering, it's that if I don't/won't have a table, I don't want to eat there (at least at that time), at all.
If it's so busy how do they "guarantee" you a table (as one poster stated)? Are they kicking people out, or are you just stuck, standing there waiting, holding all your stuff AND food and juggling kids, etc. until someone finishes? They can't magically make a table appear just by leading you to one.
This system MAY make tables turn over faster, but that's also not guaranteed because if I sit a bit before my meal, I'll probably get up and go as soon as I'm done, versus if I've been standing in line (again) to get food and then waiting for a table (standing line again) and therefore collapse into a chair with my food (because, let's face it, Disney is exhausting), probably sitting for the first time all day. In that case, I'll likely eat more slowly and savor my "table time" just as long, if not longer, than if I'd sat down while my husband waited in line for our lunch.
And the idea that if my husband and son have meals, but I don't I can't sit with them? That's an automatic no go for me. People won't be separated from their families for a bus ride or during an attraction but it's OK for a meal? A time when you actually do talk, socialize and regroup. (And, yeah, for the prices I'm paying at Disney I, and everyone else too, do "deserve" a little consideration for our enjoyment of the experience, and not just a place to park our behinds while wolfing down our over-priced calories.)
Going outside while he waits? Sure, because there's nothing to drag my child away from the idea of lunch in Disney World. And call/text when he's ready to sit? Sure, but we have to be with him for any of us to sit down, oh and, whenever there are huge crowds there is massive cell phone failure/lag, so definitely not something to count on. (While at football games texts can take HOURS to go through and that's a small crowd compared to Disney congestion.) And the whole bottleneck at the entrance to the seating area with all these people waiting for parties, waiting for tables and waiting for food, getting condiments, trying to get back in ... It all just seems the polar opposite of consumer friendly to me.
I'm not talking about throwing a fit, just voting with my wallet and taking my eating dollars elsewhere, quite possibly outside the park, if I this is the only option I'm given.