when a young person dies from no apparent cause, are there laws requiring an autopsy?
my neighbor came knocking today. i saw through the keyhole that she was shaking, and i thought for sure she was going to tell me her dog died and she didn't know what to do. the dog is morbidly obese, i've been expecting it wouldn't be long. i was so surprised when she said it was her husband! completely unexpected... died in bed a few hours before. he was ~38-40 yrs old. this was the only person in this complex that i really ever talked to; just said "hi" & such to his wife. anyway, i feel so bad for her. she was freaking out, didn't know what to do with her animals... had to get on a flight. but it sounded like she was flying out right away for funeral reasons. i thought that was strange since i would definitely want to know what caused it. he did have an adrenal tumor removed several months ago, but that was supposed to be taken care of. she said he hit his head a few days ago & that's all she could think of. i just started wondering about the autopsy thing and thought someone here would know something about that.
this is a weird day. to top it off, my good friend, sworn to be childless for a long time to come (though married for 4 years now) is pregnant! it's blowing my mind. the way she was talking, it sounded like she wanted to do it to help the marriage (maybe i'm reading too much into it, but it seems they've been fighting constantly for over a year now). i'm sure i'd be more freaked about that news if it weren't for my neighbor.... i just didn't know what i could do to help this woman. i guess she was so stunned that she just needed someone to tell her what needed to be done. i can't keep her dogs, so all i'm doing is feeding her bird. i feel so inadequate
my neighbor came knocking today. i saw through the keyhole that she was shaking, and i thought for sure she was going to tell me her dog died and she didn't know what to do. the dog is morbidly obese, i've been expecting it wouldn't be long. i was so surprised when she said it was her husband! completely unexpected... died in bed a few hours before. he was ~38-40 yrs old. this was the only person in this complex that i really ever talked to; just said "hi" & such to his wife. anyway, i feel so bad for her. she was freaking out, didn't know what to do with her animals... had to get on a flight. but it sounded like she was flying out right away for funeral reasons. i thought that was strange since i would definitely want to know what caused it. he did have an adrenal tumor removed several months ago, but that was supposed to be taken care of. she said he hit his head a few days ago & that's all she could think of. i just started wondering about the autopsy thing and thought someone here would know something about that.
this is a weird day. to top it off, my good friend, sworn to be childless for a long time to come (though married for 4 years now) is pregnant! it's blowing my mind. the way she was talking, it sounded like she wanted to do it to help the marriage (maybe i'm reading too much into it, but it seems they've been fighting constantly for over a year now). i'm sure i'd be more freaked about that news if it weren't for my neighbor.... i just didn't know what i could do to help this woman. i guess she was so stunned that she just needed someone to tell her what needed to be done. i can't keep her dogs, so all i'm doing is feeding her bird. i feel so inadequate
