poohandwendy
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I don't think it was anyone's intention to insult the OP, let me say that first. That is the inherent problem with messge boards: people want an opinion but are often insulted if the opinion does not agree with theirs. They then cannot help but defend their actions or position.
The OP has repeatedly agreed that she should have gone to urgent care. She agreed with that, and will do it in the future. Kudos to her for having the guts to even come on here and ask! Unfortunately, the toe problem is in the past. She asked why the bill wasn't covered and many people correctly explained why.
Again, YOUR situation WAS markedly different. I am not sure why, as a practicing RN, you are not seeing that a BREATHING problem and an infected toe in NO WAY compare. I am not sure why you would encourage people to appeal an insurance company decison that seems very much in the right.
My DH worked Charge and Triage in a Peds ED in a very MAJOR metropolitan city (for many many years.) He has guaranteed me that if this pair showed up in his ED, they would have enjoyed an 8 hour wait while more emergent patients were seen. That's just a fact. And it is because of the perception that "it hurts, and my Doctor's office is closed, so it must be an emergency" mentality. Now wouldn't this time have been better spent at an urgent care facility with a 15-minute wait for treatment? Or even time better spent soaking the toe back at the hotel?
Sorry to be so harsh, but it's a FACT that an infected toenail is NOT AN EMERGENCY and that is why the insurance didn't pay. Appealing the insurance company's decision is the only recourse (albeit wrong.) If they pay it is a shame and it promotes the usage of the ED as a "clinic" rather than the EMERGENCY department it is MEANT to be.
This is one of the fundamental reasons why the healthcare system in America is so messed up. People do not see the Doctor on a regular basis and then let things get to such a state that they can't take it anymore so deem it an "emergency." We have to learn, as a whole, to be PROACTIVE with our healthcare. I am certain it is a scary situation as a parent when you are faced with an infection like that, but that is why you take PROACTIVE measures beforehand. Many on this thread with the same type of problem have suggested home treatment regimens. Ingrown nails are a recurrent and chronic problem, not an ACUTE problem. They require constant treatment and care to avoid.
Sorry again OP that you had to learn this financial lesson, but the insurance company was right to deny the claim, especially if they state that they will only pay for real emergencies treated in the ED. It puts you in a tough bind with your ex as well. He should really be the one fighting this as it is HIS insurer. I would certainly pass the information on to the hospital that HE is responsible for 50% of the bill! You should not have to pay it in the entirety. I would also tell the hospital to contact the insured, your ex, for any further billing or insurance questions. As someone who is not even on the policy, they should not be contacting you until they have completed every bit of fight with the insurer. (Coincidentally, they don't try very hard to get the insurance company to change their mind. They know they can't bill you unless the insurance has been billed. Once they bill the insurance and the insurance says "no", it's open season on you. They really don't care who pays as long as they get their money.)
to you as this is not a fun situation! As someone who was raised by a single Mom, I can completely sympathize with your position.
Tracy
Very well said!
to you as this is not a fun situation! As someone who was raised by a single Mom, I can completely sympathize with your position.