Mona,
There’s little question they aren’t going to want to fix the doorway, and will make all kinds of excuses.
The thing is, it’s federal ADA law, with some state laws mixed in, so they are required to, and if they don’t, they can be severely penalized.
CA and MA laws are similar. When my brother was a landlord (had just a duplex) a renter applied who had Section 12 housing status. That meant my brother had to spend thousands to update his house to comply with those laws, and if he didn’t, the fines would be worse. He did it, but sold the house soon afterwards and bought a single family.
These things aren’t optional. Know your rights and pursue them if turned down. There are law firms that specialize in this.
I’m kind of a live and let live person, but something like this I’d be pushy about.
And I agree with Carol on the carpeting, was thinking similarly. Will be hard to move a wheelchair on carpeting unless it’s very firm - which sort of defeats the purpose - right? There can also be air quality issues with carpeting and molds, etc. I also agree with a sturdy shoe as opposed to grip socks.
I hope you can find a smaller wheelchair, it’s going to be a challenge. My mom’s transport-style wheelchair has brakes on the wheels in the same place a regular wheelchair has. You will just have to do an exhaustive search to find what you’re looking for. I’m sure it’s out there, it’s just a matter of finding it. You might have best luck looking for a pediatric transport chair.
I was actually in my hospital today and saw a smaller seated regular wheelchair and went over to check it out. The seat was small but the huge wheels made it a lot wider. I didn’t have anything on hand to measure size. And it was very heavy.