What a scary time for you and your family. I hope the Dr. is very optimistic when you see him, and you should know that now many hundreds of people are thinking of you and wishing you the best.
My mom's BC was found 8 yrs ago, and she is now very active in the cancer organization. If you have ANY questions that you can't seem to get answers for, please PM me and I will put you in touch with my moms group.
TxAg