My hubby had one repaired when I was 8 months pregnant with DS...the recovery was 6-8 weeks, with the first few weeks being bad! He does not have the best tolerance for pain, and had never had surgery before. He has a strong family history of hernias....probably has another one now, but hasn't gone in for it. He had the original hernia for several years before officially being diagnosed. He had been in for the "cough" test, but they said he didn't have one. They found it on an MRI when he had a kidney stone....and got it fixed from there! Good luck - it is never fun, but needs to be fixed!