Just back from a fabulous trip! Thanks to all, especially Andre and VenomHatch for all the great info. Surprise for the kids was a huge success and turning 40 in MK wasn't so bad either!
We ended up in Lodge 26, which was a little bit of a distance to the lobby, etc for my mom, but it ended up not mattering because we rarely used the amenities. We were pretty close to the west depot, which in my opinion was the best. It picked up first so we always had a seat and the stop was never crowded. We never spent more than 30 min in transport while we were there. Room was great - was ready when we arrived and was clean with a working fridge - yay! I did fax a request a few days before arrival and was very pleased with the results.
Kids enjoyed Ol' Man Island on arrival day, while I enjoyed the pool bar

Went jogging one morning and the jogging path was very nice, even in the dark. I had grand plans to jog daily but I didn't anticipate how tired my legs would feel after a full day touring the parks.
Garden Grocer was efficient - items were waiting on us when we arrived. Although in the future I don't know if I will even go to that expense. With delivery fee and tip it was almost $70 for a 12-pk of water, 6 pk of ginger ale, box of granola bars, bag of powdered donuts, box of PB and cracker, box of muffins and 6 yogurts. We left a lot of it there on checkout. I would pare that down considerably next time or skip it maybe. The only thing I really used was the water and a couple of yogurts. Kids were to excited to eat in the mornings and we ended up not using all our meal credits.
Dining was very nice. Had ADRs for all dinners, though in the future I may wing it a few nights. What I did not anticipate was how our late afternoon schedule might change and how our dinner location might not be convenient. We had Kona booked last night, but mid morning both my kids said they wanted to stay at the park until Wishes. I canceled Kona and lucked out on a BOG for dinner, which was an awesome way to celebrate my bday.
Here is where we ate:
B'fast - in the room, except checkout day when we ate at the POR food court
Lunch
Pecos Bill's (good burgers, quick, convenient)
Flame Tree (loved this!!! great food and seating by the water)
Cosmic Ray's - also good. Kids loved the musical entertainment
Dinner
Raglan Road - very fun, but this was arrival night and we were almost too tired to enjoy it.
Garden Grill - huge hit with kids and great character interaction
San Angel Inn - I know this gets mixed reviews but we loved it. We were exhausted and the atmosphere and margaritas hit the spot. Really enjoyed the food, too. Kids loved the little water ride.
BOG - great experience. DD is a Beauty and the Beast fanatic and we ate here right after Enchanted Tales with Belle so it was the perfect day for her.
All in all a wonderful trip. Hit all 4 parks in 3 days and the only thing we didn't do that we wanted to was to ride Kali River Rapids. Next time!
Thanks again!
Amanda