... one day took over an hour to get a bus to HS- (but some great days too). We were at the north depot, and noticed that sometimes the buses seemed to be full and drive right past, and sometimes there was nobody- like we were the first stop and we picked up people at the south depot LAST

Do all the buses start at the south and work around or is there no specific order at all? Just wondering, I guess we will most likely be using the south this time- since we booked a preferred room, but wondered if there is a "system"
There is a
sort of system, but it's not set in stone and the computers can vary it at any time depending on need. I've asked several people and all say there are no definite rules, only guidelines.

MK buses normally do the outer circuit first and then the South Depot (so catching a MK bus at an outer stop is a good idea). However DHS buses do it the other way, so South might be a better choice. However in the peak morning times (before 10:30am) they can run extra buses, as the ones at South can get completely full. But the routing is always based on the bus's hub location (i.e. the park it serves).
Kind of annoyed by the fact that my handicapped mom paid a fortune for us to eat dinner at CRT and the elevator is broken and they told her "oh I'm sure you can walk up the stairs if you take it slowly" anybody else had this issue?
That's awful!!! I'm sure the ADA would have something to say about that! The stairs there are very steep and awkward, even for generally able-bodied people. Could they not offer any other kind of assistance? I guess it does depend on the reason for needing a wheelchair (some people use them for stamina reasons for example) but unless they already knew if your mom was even capable of standing, how dare they speak to her like that? OK, elevators can break down, and it would be one thing to ask her if she felt she was able to attempt the stairs, but quite another to use the wording you refer to. How did you manage, did you have to cancel?
The part about the bracelets yes, but I thought of another one with charging for downtown disney, can you do that also with the KTTW/bracelets or do you need to bring your regular charge card with you?
Anywhere that has the touch sensors for the RFID KttW cards will also be able to accept the MagicBands. I think there may be a few locations at DTD which don't accept any Disney payment cards at all, but I wouldn't swear to that as we don't spend too much time there.
However while it's still in the test-and-adjust phase I would never rely on Disney's payment system as being 100% reliable, and I always carry an alternative method of payment anyway. For example what happens if you max out your $1000 room-charge limit without realising? Or you just want to travel off-site.
If we don't get our request, how much room is there between the flip-down bed and the other beds in the AB rooms?
There is enough of a gap to be able to walk past fairly easily, don't worry.
We loved our Royal room although we were hardly there. Hubby says cheaper place next time but i wan to stay at POR again. I will give you the good and bad when I get the chance.....
Personally, having done the Royal Rooms once now, I would say that while it was very nice, and I loved staying there, as DD is now 13 we probably won't be doing it again. Once you're made the lights flash a few times, and enjoyed all the fun details, you tend to just use it like any other room. And for a two-week stay, a regular Garden View room (which we've also done) would be about $500 cheaper - and I can do a lot with $500.
Andre