This is really a tough decision. Let's see:
1) POFQ is much smaller than POR, which is pretty spread out.
2) They share the boat to DTD.
3) The shared buses usually stop 1st at POFQ.
4) POFQ does not have a full service restaurant while POR has Boatwright's.
5) Many DISers feel the food court at POFQ is better than the one at POR but I"m not sure why.
6) POR has a main pool as well as "quiet" pools scattered throughout the resort while POFQ has only the main pool.
7) Both have a nice spa although the one at POFQ is more secluded from the pool than the spa at POR.
8) As for theme, I guess it depends on personal taste since they a quite a bit different. At POR, I prefer the AB and my DW prefers the Mansions. The theme at POFQ is much brighter and has more of a New Orleans flavor.
9) Music: we like the music at both. We really enjoyed listening to the old style jazz while sitting outside the POFQ food court at night. But then, POR has Bob "The Piano Man" Jackson at the River Roost Lounge!
This is really a tough choice! I can't decide! I wish I had that problem, though. Have fun. You can't go wrong with either resort.
Here are our photos of both:
POR Photos
POFQ Photos