I agree and disagree. Before I was steadily in my relationship with my DH, I would never ever pay $400/night for a hotel room when there are perfectly good ones for a quarter of the price. I don't really care to spend my money simply on a temporary place to sleep and shower, I'd rather spend my money lengthening my trip. But maybe staying two weeks at Pop isn't comparable to staying 4 days at BC to some people.
I guess I may seem a little hypocritical now because we always stay at the Poly, but I'm in a situation now where I don't really care, either way but my DH does and can afford it. I still don't care as long as I am at DISNEY!
What I agree on is the annoying abuse of the ppl with disabilities system. I understand people who need to be in wheelchairs. I also understand that it probably sucks sometimes. But one person in a wheelchair doesn't need his/her family of 4 and their cousins, and their friends, and their kids, and their friends they met 30 minutes ago, taking advantage of special seating and cutting in line. It really irritates me how people seem to take advantage of things these days...
I also feel like there are more and more wheelchairs around also, like others have said. I understand injury or illness, but seriously people, if you're using a wheelchair due to obesity, get walking- and start with WDW. No wonder America is becoming fatter and fatter.
Wow ~ It must be nice to live in your world, mine doesn't seem as cut and dry and as yours.
By the way... be thankful that no one you love is in a wheelchair or scooter. It happens, young/old, rich/poor, heavy/thin... disabilities are not chosen. I worked in a special needs school for years and years, quitting recently to go back to school, and do you know how many little people are in wheelchairs? I mean preschool age and below? Be thankful the children you have are healthy and have normal mobility ,that you and your husband are as well... and MYOB!
" I also understand that it probably sucks sometimes." Um, no... not sometimes, it DOES suck but we persevere and go on.
There are no perks to wheelchairs or scooters, no front of the line pass, nothing magical. Some people stare, are rude, walk directly in front, judge, and so on... without reason (sound familiar by chance)!
There are hidden disabilities, and very apparent disabilities. They all "suck" by the way (as you so eloquently put it)!

You don't know what disease a person has, if they are dying, if they are paralyzed, if the have a degnerative disease, MS, Parkinson's, are going through Chemo, have COPD, a heart problem... and you know what... its none of your business! Don't judge obesity either...there are medicines that make people retain water, gain weight, look heavy. Those using wheelchairs cannot get up and walk, excersize, and so on.
Stop judging others... you do not know what someone has or how someone feels, unless you ARE that person. Be thankful for you and your family's health and HOPE that all stays well... because if you would have told me even three years ago I was going to end up like I am now I would never have believed it. Accidents happen, conditions develop, disease occur... we have no control over it.
Live for the moment and worry only about you and yours (and by that I don't mean selfishly... I mean don't sweat the small stuff, don't worry about others, don't judge, and be thankful for health... it is truly a gift)!
