We went to WDW for the first time 2009. DH is NOT a Disney person and staying onsite would have been overkill for him. We stayed offsite, he got to go fishing at the small lake in the gated communitiy, the kids had the pool to themselves, we ate a few meals at home, etc. It was a wonderful trip and I even got him to commit to another trip in 2013. I would never had been able to talk him into it if he couldn't get away from the mouse for awhile. Now, if we ever go back for along weekend, then we might try onsite, but with 5 of us, the reasonable (in my head) priced hotels are very limited.