I have no advice for you, but wanted to let you know that I will be there from Thursday to Friday with my kids and 2 of their friends. It looks like there is a lot of choices not to far from the Lodge to eat. We are planning to get there Thursday afternoon, check in, let the kids swim, leave for a late dinner and then go back. On Friday, we will probably just eat at the breakfast buffet to save time and let the kids play till they tire out. My kids are 13 and 11 and their friends are 14 and 12.
I know someone did a review (Papaduece, I think) that you might want to read.