Congratulations!
I actually JUST graduated from law school...I am taking the bar exam next week....YIKES! I probably shouldn't be on the disboards but I can't help myself and I am losing my mind studying 12+ hours per day (its a miserable experience). What year of law school are you in?
I went to Disney with my boyfriend (we are not engaged yet..but hopefully real soon!) during winter break of our 2L year from Dec 16-23. First off, the decorations are beautiful, and I think they still may be up through the first week in January (and you should still be on winter break). You should check with your planner on that. If you want the decor in the background of your photos or want the atmosphere it will be there.
Next, it was REALLY REALLY busy when we went. We both love Christmas but we decided we probably wont go back for a christmas disney trip unless it was when we had children so they could experience it too.
We stayed at the POR..love this resort, its very easy getting to downtown Disney and you usually don't have to wait too long for the buses to the parks BUT during that week we did wait a little while longer. The same goes for leaving the parks at night.
The crowds vary in each park.
Magic Kingdom--Our first night I had tickets to
MVMCP for a Friday evening. It was so crowded and we maybe went on one or 2 rides and watched the fireworks and left. After exams & travelling all day we coudn't deal with the crowds.
BUT they also had extra magic hours that week really late so after a lot of begging, we went when they were open to 1am = BEST IDEA EVER ...we went on almost every major ride (space mountain, pirates, haunted mansion) there were not many people there that late. (but you will need a warm coat lol). We went back another day to hit some other rides and for dinner at the castle, but we mainly got on the rides when we were there for EMH.
Animal Kingdom -- Not that crowed and we got through pretty much the entire park and went on every ride in one day. I can give you tips on how we got it all done. However, we didn't get on the Expedition Everest because they ran out of fast passes (this happened in other parks as well so plan accordingly)
DHS -- The lines for the rides were pretty long and you need fastpasses to get on Aerosmith, Toy Story , Tower of Terror if you don't want to wait. Obviously the Osbourne lights are crowded, but my boyfriend hates crowds and still said it was one of his favorite things to see/do. Just be prepared to walk slowly through the light show lol
EPCOT - Not nearly as bad as the magic kingdom in regards to crowds but 2nd most crowded park but bearable. If you want a FP for Soarin, you should be there when the park opens.
SO, I agree with the above poster, and early December would be better compared to later in the month, but if you just want the decor, I would check with your planner about if the decor is still up the first week or so in January and ask some people what the crowds are like then if your main goal is to avoid the crowds.
I hope some of this helps...you can make it work if you plan everything out in advance ( what rides you must get on, make dinner reservations 6 months out etc.). Happy wedding planning!