Tulip, I'm very sorry to hear of the results of your phone call and for you to be offered only one day of FPs.
The big issue is the following statement, by the CM, which everyone who has been posting here knows isn't true.
I had always thought Disney held their APs in higher regard. They are shortchanging them with their FP policies, whatever they may be.
*If you were to Cancel your onsite reservation and move to a higher quality offsite hotel, your booked FPs remain intact. You won't lose what you have booked and your husband may find offsite accommodations more to his liking.