kittengal13
kittengal13
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Hi guys,
I'm going on holiday with my best friend next year to Florida for 2 weeks and her brother and his girlfriend (who are a few years older than us), have always expressed their desire to go to Florida next year, but nothing has been planned.. my mum and I have discussed the "what if" situations of what if her brother and girlfriend decide to just get cheap flights and come over and stay in our hotel room? Or they get their own hotel room and want to hang about with us? I didn't actually think it would be an issue, but I seen my best friend the other day and she casually said how her brother and his gf were looking at prices to go to florida the same time we are going!!!
I instantly filled with dread. I have known my best friend for 15 years (since we were wee tots), and so have known her family all this time. I get along well with the brother's girlfriend but not so much with the brother- nothing bad has ever happened but to be honest, he makes me feel a bit uncomfortable- not in a smarmy way, just in a he acts smart and I have just never really warmed to him.
Plus, her brother and his girlfriend like to drink and me and my friend are just not into that, plus we aren't legally old enough to drink in the US.
Which brings me to my next point... I'm spending over £1000 for flights and a hotel plus about £1500 on spending money... I'm just a young girl and that's a lot of money for me and my family to spend on me going on a holiday just to feel uncomfortable/ not entirely content for the 2 weeks.
So... how do I go about bringing up my dissatisfaction of the situation to my best friend? I don't think she'd be happy about it either, but it's her brother and I don't think she could say NO WAY to him, as much as she may want him to. Like she said, they're looking to book last minute flights so Im gonna have to worry about this for the next year! I really just want to nip it in the bud, but don't want to jeopardise our holiday or friendship at the same time.
Looking forward to some advice, and I'm sorry my story is so long.. just wanted to give all the facts. To be honest, whenever I think about the possibility of them going, I want to cry.
Thanks guys.
Kitten Gal
I'm going on holiday with my best friend next year to Florida for 2 weeks and her brother and his girlfriend (who are a few years older than us), have always expressed their desire to go to Florida next year, but nothing has been planned.. my mum and I have discussed the "what if" situations of what if her brother and girlfriend decide to just get cheap flights and come over and stay in our hotel room? Or they get their own hotel room and want to hang about with us? I didn't actually think it would be an issue, but I seen my best friend the other day and she casually said how her brother and his gf were looking at prices to go to florida the same time we are going!!!
I instantly filled with dread. I have known my best friend for 15 years (since we were wee tots), and so have known her family all this time. I get along well with the brother's girlfriend but not so much with the brother- nothing bad has ever happened but to be honest, he makes me feel a bit uncomfortable- not in a smarmy way, just in a he acts smart and I have just never really warmed to him.
Plus, her brother and his girlfriend like to drink and me and my friend are just not into that, plus we aren't legally old enough to drink in the US.
Which brings me to my next point... I'm spending over £1000 for flights and a hotel plus about £1500 on spending money... I'm just a young girl and that's a lot of money for me and my family to spend on me going on a holiday just to feel uncomfortable/ not entirely content for the 2 weeks.
So... how do I go about bringing up my dissatisfaction of the situation to my best friend? I don't think she'd be happy about it either, but it's her brother and I don't think she could say NO WAY to him, as much as she may want him to. Like she said, they're looking to book last minute flights so Im gonna have to worry about this for the next year! I really just want to nip it in the bud, but don't want to jeopardise our holiday or friendship at the same time.
Looking forward to some advice, and I'm sorry my story is so long.. just wanted to give all the facts. To be honest, whenever I think about the possibility of them going, I want to cry.
Thanks guys.
Kitten Gal