Just thought I'd update everyone with what I ended up putting in my families goody bags. The reunion was a hit--thanks to everyone for their suggestions!
In their bags I put a laminated wallet size list with everyones phone number & cell phone number on it, I also made another list laminated wallet size with everyones birth date on it (got these ideas from Disers!!) They were a big hit. I did the Hershey's bar with personalized wrappers, and bubbles with personalized stickers also (also diser ideas). Everyone got a water bottle, some snacky stuff, travel size Kleenex, pack of gum, and brochures about our area for out of towners.
A couple activites we did I can share: we had a badminton tournament. That was really fun, we paired an older family member with a younger family member--didn't let people pick their own teams. Was a great way to met members of the family you don't talk to very often.
I found a website that makes up word find puzzles for free (
http://puzzlemaker.school.discovery.com/) and put everyones name in the puzzle--that was a great activity for down time.
I found terra cotta pots on sale at Michaels---4 for $1. I had some craft paint at home so brought that......then everyone had free time to decorate their own pot. Winner (by majority vote) got to take home whoever's pot they wanted and the rest of us traded with each other for great keepsakes of the weekend.
I had everyone send in a baby picture of themselves, posted them all on poster boards and labeled them "Baby A, B, C, etc" and had everyone guess who they were. This was pretty hard but great fun.
thanks again for everyones suggestions!