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ok so the dilemma of the day... a bridal shower. My mom wants to throw me a bridal shower, but i believe the etiquette is no showers. Once we come back from Disney we are having a "Celebration of Marriage" at our house and inviting about 200, it is going to be a cook out atmosphere with food and drinks. A casual time so we can enjoy it. What does everyone think?

We're having the same dilemma, so I'd love to hear what other people have to say!

DF's grandmother REALLY wants to throw me a shower, but we're not inviting these people to the wedding...I think I'm just going to let her decide. We're doing the cook out thing when we come back too.

I realize traditionally you don't invite people to the shower who aren't invited to the wedding, so that was my initial reaction when she brought it up. But she looked heartbroken lol.
 

Well the etiquette is that guests invited to the wedding are invited to the shower but if somebody is throwing you one and people are going to come I would let it happen it's not like you are planning your own shower.
 
I don't know how I missed your PJ, but just getting caught up and I love all your details so far. I really like the second table option. Lol, I had the same experience when I got my BEO, I think they were charging me over $2k to rent candelabras, I'm using an outside florist and I got everything I wanted but for much less. You can use both Disney and an outside florist. We have Disney doing the Pre-reception centerpieces which is also be at the dessert party and it's not a problem.

Your hair and make-up look great! I love the work Impressions does. It's definitely okay to mix different designs. Can she alter the castle image to include stars? Maybe instead of the mickey heads it could be starbursts? That way you get all the graphics you want but they tie in a little more.
 
Am I missing something or did your hair fall down quite a bit within the four hours? Or do I have it wrong?
 
I love how it all turned out! The up-do is very chic. Im currently searching for an up-do because I had tried to have it down, curled and tossled at my trial and by the time I was out in the Florida hummidity, my curls fell. You look great! :goodvibes
 
your hair and makeup look perfect! BTW did you ever hear back from Ohanas? During our planning, they NEVER called my DH back to schedule our welcome dinner there. He left message after message and we soon just booked through Disney Dining. He actually complained to them about that when we actually got there. I hope you heard back from them!!
 














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