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[wulfekamp]

I understand completely. We went a few years ago with my sis and her family. It was a train wreck. Her husband was so selfish. It was about what he wanted to do not what the kids wanted to do. I wanted to scream. never never again.

 

[Nikki_Mouse]

This past December we stayed in a 2bd at BW. It was my DH, DS10 and DD7. It was WAYYY too much room for the four of us- BUT we loved it!!! It was nice to have a lock off studio. When my son was being mean to his little sis, she locked herself in the studio and played and watched tv. We liked the "extra" space so much, we may never go back to something smaller! I might have to add on!

BTW I took my sis, her three girls and my dad last year. We had a great time, but sis got on my nerves!!! She had to shop in every gift shop at WDW- and that's a lot of gift shops!!!! She complained about money the WHOLE time, but boy did she spend it! The kicker was... she paid nothing for the room!! But I love her and would do it again!! I just don't know if DH will let me!! haha

 

[carol1231]

Many of us feel your pain and have been in a similar situation. I'm glad that you didn't have to cancel your trip because of it. You will enjoy the nights at SSR, it is one of our favorites. Just chalk it up to a lesson learned.

 

[jco_direwolf]

Yea it's not happened to us. But I've heard others have things like that happen. It seems because it's "points" people who AREN'T DVC don't understand.

It's not a hotel reservation that you can cancel and/or change up till a few days before. And that it's REAL money, you paid for the points, points aren't free, they have real value associated with them (on the order of $5-10 per point.)

Depending on your relationship, you might what to let them know that this decision is costing you real money. Other than that you just have to eat the cost.

johno

 

[oakmanner]

I too have experianced the DVC from contemplating a stay 11 months out. They did'nt understand what the hurry was nailing down our dates.

Then under the old ADR system trying to talk to people about where we were going to eat 180 days in advance.

I guess you either get it or you don't.

 

[kimberh]

Well, I think it was mighty good of you to want to take someone's else's kids on your vacation... I would never do that, Not in a million years. Your brother should have been thankful! Disney is so crowded that I always had a hard enough time keeping up with my own, much less someone elses. You are really going to miss the space in the 2 bedroom vs studios. Sorry for your inconvience. I wouldn't invite them again either. We travel with a select few. They have to shop like we shop (very little) eat like we eat, and go like we go. If those requirements are not met, we don't invite. I have started to love just our trips.

 

[Mickey'sApprentice]

I understand completely. We went a few years ago with my sis and her family. It was a train wreck. Her husband was so selfish. It was about what he wanted to do not what the kids wanted to do. I wanted to scream. never never again.

This was one of our biggest issues. It was actually pretty sad. The 8 year old girl got so little out of the trip. They left a day early in a huff so that they could go see the Daytona Speedway (so the trip wouldn't be a complete disaster.)

The rest of the family didn't want to plan enough to make an enjoyable trip. I about had a nervous break down trying to plan for every conceivable situation with absolutely no support. I was constantly fixing things that happened due to poor planning, but was not able to take charge.

I recently tried to jump through hoops to get a transfer for BCV for July 4th week for my non-planning, wdw liking sis. She couldn't believe all the days weren't available so they decided to go to Gulf Shores.

 

[klofan]

Been there... Actually, I just came back from 4 days at SSR. My friend who I was going with, cancelled on me 9 days before the trip due to "money issues". Obviously, I couldn't cancel. Anyway, I brought another friend with me, who I somewhat paid for. Then my friend was who originally going with me, got mad because I didn't pay for her. Needless to say, that was the 3rd time she cancelled on me. And she wants to come in August when my friends and I go! Ha! Yeah right. I may require my friends give me some kind of cash deposit or something.

Pete.

 

[Tiger926]

We've been to WDW with family and friends before DVC, and won't be doing it again. We bought DVC for us, and not to share with family and friends as travelling with others is just too difficult. Despite us discussing stuff beforehand and making plans to have separate time, it just doesn't work...

I am sorry about this, but not surprised, as no matter how many times we've explained how DVC works to people, they still ask us silly questions, which tells us that we will be travelling alone to WDW!

Hope you can get a studio, Tiger

 

[jco_direwolf]

My friend who I was going with, cancelled on me 9 days before the trip due to "money issues".

how can you have "Money Issues" 9 days out? I mean if you are flying you SHOULD have your ticket by then. You should have some idea of how much you are going to spend on park tickets.

At any rate, it does sound like you should ask for a deposit. The only reason your friend backed out is it sounds like they didn't have any "skin" in the game. Canceling was just calling/telling you they couldn't make it.

Same reason that you get better attendance at a "Class" with a $5 fee than you do with a free one.

johno

 

[pkitty]

I am in a worrisome position this year also....my dad and mum are coming with us and I have booked a seperate studio for them. My mum just received a call from her doctor....she has to go for a colonoscopy next week. My mum has already had cancer twice (the most recent bout less than 11 months ago resulting in a complete hysterecomy and the first go around...colon cancer). Needless to say we are all concerned. We travel in less than 4 weeks. Our only fall back if they cannot come will be my dd's boyfriend...he'll have a whole studio to himself...he's only 16. Great kid and they have been dating for a year but other than that we will be in a bind. Planned this trip for my parents because of my mum's health....hoping all turns out.

 

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[dvcbnd]

We have taken our parents on both sides and have never had a problem. They are all very flexible and we have the same vacation style. Although, I'm getting concerned regarding our upcoming trip this July. We have just extended invitations for the first time to my cousin and SIL. I did give them a deadline to decide either "yes" or "no", by March. I felt that was a reasonable time since I'll be finalizing our itinerary and making ADR's by that point. I just received a "no" from my SIL about a month ago. She was concerned about money issues and we just found out a few days ago that she lost her job. I'm not sure what my cousin is going to decide, but I do hope she'll know her answer w/in the next few weeks. After reading stories regarding DVC members & their bad experiences, I'm not sure if I want to extend anymore invites in the future. As someone already mentioned, it is stressful and there is a cost at stake. I just don't understand how people don't get that.

 

[bwvBound]

OP: It may take awhile for family to understand the constraints of "timeshare." Don't give up too soon. I hope this blows over quickly and you are able to soon look forward to sharing travel and vacations together.

 

[PatMcDuck]

My problem with this is similar, it is with the teen DD who we let "bring a friend" last June. DD wanted someone to come with us, which we GET. She was 16 last summer, and her 18 year old brother is not really company to her anymore(he is handicapped, downs, autism, non-verbal). 2 weeks out, the friend;s parents decided to send the kid to soccer camp or something. We booked dates AROUND this kid's schedule. I lost $$ on this, plane ticket........ this summer, she is allowed to try again, but I am worried the same thing will happen, even with a different girl.

 

[disneydawn6]

I also was suppose to take my brother and his family this June to BWV. He passed away this Christmas suddenly of a heart attact at 45. I would do anything if he was still coming with us. I have told my SIL she and the kids are still welcome to come. With only her income now I don't think they can afford the plane tickets/ admission tickets anymore. I do have a few old tickets she can have but I can't afford to buy her plane tickets either.. I know families vacations can be a hassle sometimes but looking back I wish I would have done this before he passed away....

 

[klofan]

how can you have "Money Issues" 9 days out? I mean if you are flying you SHOULD have your ticket by then. You should have some idea of how much you are going to spend on park tickets.

At any rate, it does sound like you should ask for a deposit. The only reason your friend backed out is it sounds like they didn't have any "skin" in the game. Canceling was just calling/telling you they couldn't make it.

Same reason that you get better attendance at a "Class" with a $5 fee than you do with a free one.

johno

Well, so she says, she had all this money for food, the ticket, etc. (she was planning to buy the park ticket when we got there). Later, she told me her father needed to pay rent or they were going to get evicted, blah blah blah. That was one of many reasons. And that's fine if bailed on me...but she could of at least given me more of a heads up. Her phone call was, "I can afford it, but I can't afford it." That confused me, haha. This is the last time I waste points on her.

Pete

 

[jimmar6419]

We went with hubby's DB and his wife. They were a little difficult in the planning process, but ended up letting us lead the way. We all had such a great time and I knew they loved and appreciated it when BIL was sitting with a sad look on the last while waiting for Magical Express. New families were arriving and he said he just wanted to kick those excited people starting their vacations saying "I hope we see Mickey." I had to laugh because I feel that I need goodbye therapy when I leave at the end.

 

[jekjones1558]

Thinking of you and mum.

I am in a worrisome position this year also....my dad and mum are coming with us and I have booked a seperate studio for them. My mum just received a call from her doctor....she has to go for a colonoscopy next week. My mum has already had cancer twice (the most recent bout less than 11 months ago resulting in a complete hysterecomy and the first go around...colon cancer). Needless to say we are all concerned. We travel in less than 4 weeks. Our only fall back if they cannot come will be my dd's boyfriend...he'll have a whole studio to himself...he's only 16. Great kid and they have been dating for a year but other than that we will be in a bind. Planned this trip for my parents because of my mum's health....hoping all turns out.