JessicaR
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I have apostrophe anxiety, it leads to nightmares and profuse sweatingMy biggest peeve re correct usage is that there seems to be an epidemic lately of people who don't know the difference between the plural and the possessive, and so add an apostrophe to any word that ends in "s." I constantly have Facebook friends posting about their "kid's," and, for example, Jane Johnson will post something like "The Johnson's are going to Disney World!!" One friend even proudly posted a shot of the large new, custom sign she had made to go in front of her family's front door with their name painted on it, i.e., "The Smith's"
I actually received a solicitation email from a well-known firm of financial advisors informing me that "you're invited to a special event for professional's." I'm sorry, but if you can't distinguish between the plural and the possessive, there's no way in hell you're getting my money.
I think I missed that section of grammar and it has forever haunted me. My hand shakes every time my fingers get near the apostrophe keyI have apostrophe anxiety, it leads to nightmares and profuse sweatingI think I missed that section of grammar and it has forever haunted me. My hand shakes every time my fingers get near the apostrophe key
The one that follows the S is even more confounding
Is there a simple tool, rhyme or trick to remembering the use?
It's really pretty simple.
Basically, if the word is plural, you don't need an apostrophe.
If you are trying to show possession, you need an apostrophe.
The Smiths are going to Disney.
The Smiths' trip to Disney was cancelled.
The boys like their new coach.
The boys' coach is a former star player.
One I hear all the time on TV, is "the phone rang at 6 a.m. in the morning". Yes, a. m. is in the morning. You don't need to say it twice.
(English teacher here)
Sandy

It's really pretty simple.
Basically, if the word is plural, you don't need an apostrophe.
If you are trying to show possession, you need an apostrophe.
The Smiths are going to Disney.
The Smiths' trip to Disney was cancelled.
The boys like their new coach.
The boys' coach is a former star player.
I have apostrophe anxiety, it leads to nightmares and profuse sweatingI think I missed that section of grammar and it has forever haunted me. My hand shakes every time my fingers get near the apostrophe key
The one that follows the S is even more confounding
Is there a simple tool, rhyme or trick to remembering the use?

I know I chant in my head "belongs too"
What is the rule for when the apostrophe comes before the S or is there one?


When someone calls your home phone and asks for you by name - how do you answer?
Caller: May I speak to Mary?
Mary: This is she.
YES - this is correct. Not "This is her" - the she vs. her thing (and he and him).
I am more of a Disney freak than she. Yes, she! If you can follow it with "is" than you know you are correct. I am more of a Disney freak than she is.
This was a biggie for my Mom!

CaliBear said:I take exception with "You've got another think/thing coming." Origin of the phrase aside, the phrase "you've got another thing coming" has become so embedded in our speech that it is a valid phrase.
I know I chant in my head "belongs too"
What does it mean, though? What's the context?
One more petty detail.. When folk add very to a word when it is not required. For example 'It's very devastating' but the word holds a dramatic context anyway. It's very soul destroying...
How much more soul destroying can one get lol...