I called this morning , and they were really helpful . Said the
Disneyland pass cant be transferred /shared between people like you can in The World.. she said that I could give them access to my email account and let her use that during the time there

.. something that I was not comfortable with.. She was very nice and she refunded me the money . I will now give them cash to purchase the pass using her own app..
So that's one thing I learned today. don't purchase the pass for someone else unless you will be with them at the time of use..!! cash is best in this case !
Thanks to those who responded ..