Thank you so much for sharing!! I have been seriously considering a vow renewal in 2016...it's odd, because in theory, my wedding may be considered 'perfect' by some, to me...the whole day, I felt 'lost'. It SO wasn't 'me'...everyone says that it doensn't matter what the 'wedding day' is like, it's about 'marriage'...well I have to disagree, my wedding was about trying to please every other person there, and not only was it not 'me'....BUT... all the people I was trying so hard to 'please' complained from the morning all the way to evening cocktails...it made me anxious the entire day and I couldn't help but lose focus about the day when I spent most of it putting out 'fires' about who was too hot in the reception hall, who was too cold during photos, who got offended by the waitor, who hated the music, who kept running over adjusting my dress while I danced with my friends...it was a ball of stress...during the last dance 'let me call you sweetheart' which was a nod to my deceased grandparents I sobbed in my husband's arms...not because it was so emotional, but because the day had totally spiraled out of control and was so stressful on me...yes, I think I WILL renew my vows in 2016...but THIS time...I'm doing it MY way!! Thanks for the encouragement!!
