Party For A Bride, Including Stripper...EWWW

[sam_gordon]

Being that it's been 12 years, I'd guess the decision was already made.

I wonder what the search terms were that brought this thread up.

 

[Dan Murphy]

To quote @Dan Murphy, "Welcome to the DIS, @ROBYNKIRSTYLAW@."

Being that it's been 12 years, I'd guess the decision was already made.

Thanks for the shout out, @lovesmurfs.

What area of law is your practice focused on Robyn?

Is this you, Robyn? In any case, post reported for spamming your law firm.

 

[Allison]

It can be difficult to express your feelings on a situation when you are uncomfortable. It is important to be honest with the hostess about why you are no longer attending the get together, as she may not understand the reason for your absence. If you decide to tell her why you are not attending, it is important to do so in a respectful and sensitive manner. Explain to her that you are not comfortable with the entertainment she has chosen, and that you would prefer if there were other forms of entertainment.

You could suggest some alternative activities, such as karaoke or board games, which could provide just as much fun. It is also important to remember that your preferences may not be shared by everyone attending the party. Some people may feel more comfortable with the stripper, and it is important to respect their opinion. Explain that you understand that the entertainment is not to your personal tastes, and that you appreciate that other people may have different preferences.

At the end of the day, it is important to remember that it is your choice whether or not to attend the event. You should not feel obligated to explain your reasons for not wanting to attend, and if you do decide to explain your feelings it is important to do so in a respectful and polite manner. Ultimately, it is best to go with your gut feeling and not attend the event if it does not make you feel comfortable.

i personally had a male stripper stop by my home for my hen night was an exciting and memorable experience. I was able to relax and enjoy the moment in the comfort of my own home. It was great to be able to have fun with my close friends and family, without having to worry about leaving the house or going to a club. A male stripper at home may not be the right choice for everyone. Some people may feel uncomfortable with the level of intimacy that a male stripper brings to the party, while others may feel uncomfortable with the idea of a stranger in their home. Additionally, some people might be uncomfortable with the level of objectification that a male stripper may bring to the event.

They are probably divorced by now.

 

[Boopuff]

We had my DD's bachelorette and she didn't want strippers... so we didn't! I can tolerate male strippers from a distance... like back of the theater distance.. but when they're touching .... NOPE! so icky

 

[sam_gordon]

Thanks for the shout out, @lovesmurfs.

What area of law is your practice focused on Robyn?

Is this you, Robyn? In any case, post reported for spamming your law firm.

Is that really considered "spamming"? Having the business name (presumably) as your user name?

 

[Dan Murphy]

Is that really considered "spamming"? Having the business name (presumably) as your user name?

To me it is. When it's as easy to highlight a name and do a search, like I did, to me it's spam. It's a form of advertising. However, a moderator will make that decision.

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[White Cat]

To quote @Dan Murphy, "Welcome to the DIS, @ROBYNKIRSTYLAW@."

Being that it's been 12 years, I'd guess the decision was already made.

Probably already divorced.

 

[lovesmurfs]

They are probably divorced by now.

Probably already divorced.

LOL. I nearly mentioned that, but didn't want to be overly negative.

 

[Mysterian]

Thanks for the shout out, @lovesmurfs.

What area of law is your practice focused on Robyn?

Is this you, Robyn? In any case, post reported for spamming your law firm.

Is this a joke?
When you Googled her and pulled up her Linkedin photo, did you happen to read that she's a childcare practitioner?
There's no mention of a law firm, unless they do legal work at nurseries?

Her last name is Law, she just used her full name, same as you.

 

[Dan Murphy]

Is this a joke?
When you Googled her and pulled up her Linkedin photo, did you happen to read that she's a childcare practitioner?
There's no mention of a law firm, unless they do legal work at nurseries?

Her last name is Law, she just used her full name, same as you.

Probably true, @Mysterian. If so, my apologies to Ms. Law.

 

[TipsyTraveler]

Yikes, @Dan Murphy came out swinging on this thread. Makes me really glad I went with my shortened nickname as my user name over my full name of TipsyTraveler’sProfessionalIMAXScreenCleaningServices.

 

[sam_gordon]

To me it is. When it's as easy to highlight a name and do a search, like I did, to me it's spam. It's a form of advertising. However, a moderator will make that decision.

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Do you always highlight a new users name and search for them? I mean there are 20+ "Robyn Law's" on linkedin.

 

[leebee]

Hmmm... I got curious, so I searched and found robinkirstylaw at a site called Strip Recruit- Jobs for Strippers. Just connecting the dots...

 

[TipsyTraveler]

Is this a joke?
When you Googled her and pulled up her Linkedin photo, did you happen to read that she's a childcare practitioner?
There's no mention of a law firm, unless they do legal work at nurseries?

Her last name is Law, she just used her full name, same as you.

Hmmm... I got curious, so I searched and found robinkirstylaw at a site called Strip Recruit- Jobs for Strippers. Just connecting the dots...

@ROBYNKIRSTYLAW@ ….Are you a nanny or a stripper? I feel it’s important to clear this up before I decide if you’re the right candidate for the position I’m looking to fill.

 

[Dan Murphy]

Do you always highlight a new users name and search for them? I mean there are 20+ "Robyn Law's" on linkedin.

Well, certainly not all, Sam. That would be a full time job. But I guess 2 years of doing a moderator stint here on this board over 22 years ago must have instilled some basic 'investigative' traits in me. Having seen a good number of brand new posters, posting on a distant resurrected thread of some sort, with spam intent, does pique my interest at times. Coming across a resurrected thread from over 12 years ago, brought up by a brand new poster, posting an initial post, almost reading like long legal advice, with the word 'law' in the screen name, did perk my interest to look further. Coming across the LinkedIn page, with same name, I drew a conclusion, possibly, in retrospect, maybe too quick of a conclusion.

However, with the post quoted below from our friend, leebee, not sure, my mystery deepens.

Hmmm... I got curious, so I searched and found robinkirstylaw at a site called Strip Recruit- Jobs for Strippers. Just connecting the dots...

Interesting, leebee.

 

[sam_gordon]

Well, certainly not all, Sam. That would be a full time job. But I guess 2 years of doing a moderator stint here on this board over 22 years ago must have instilled some basic 'investigative' traits in me. Having seen a good number of brand new posters, posting on a distant resurrected thread of some sort, with spam intent, does pique my interest at times. Coming across a resurrected thread from over 12 years ago, brought up by a brand new poster, posting an initial post, almost reading like long legal advice, with the word 'law' in the screen name, did perk my interest to look further. Coming across the LinkedIn page, with same name, I drew a conclusion, possibly, in retrospect, maybe too quick of a conclusion.

I sort of get that, except you say "almost reading like long legal advice". I don't see what Robyn wrote as any different than what others wrote 13 years ago...
* it's important to be honest why you're not attending.
* Be respectful when giving regrets.
* Suggest alternate activities
* It's your choice whether to attend and you're not obligated
* Poster's experience with strippers.

I will admit, I thought I was going to read a link or other kind of promotion of services, but it really wasn't there. Can I ask what parts of the post you thought read like "legal advice"?

 

[Kimkimba]

I can’t believe I just read this entire thread when I’m sure I read it 12-1/2 years ago. Guess my memory is going.

 

[Imzadi]

When you Googled her and pulled up her Linkedin photo, did you happen to read that she's a childcare practitioner?

Hmmm... I got curious, so I searched and found robinkirstylaw at a site called Strip Recruit- Jobs for Strippers. Just connecting the dots...

It does say in her Linkedin that she's looking to change her career path to something with more of an artistic flair.

And she just posted on an British forum the exact same post that she posted here - in another Stripper thread.

Coming across a resurrected thread from over 12 years ago, brought up by a brand new poster, posting an initial post,

You know, I have to wonder if someone is trying to get revenge on her and using her name to smear her as a nanny? Maybe a disgruntled ex-boyfriend posting as her, knowing potential parents looking to hire her may Google her, and these would be the threads that pop up?

 

[Dan Murphy]

I sort of get that, except you say "almost reading like long legal advice". I don't see what Robyn wrote as any different than what others wrote 13 years ago...
* it's important to be honest why you're not attending.
* Be respectful when giving regrets.
* Suggest alternate activities
* It's your choice whether to attend and you're not obligated
* Poster's experience with strippers.

I will admit, I thought I was going to read a link or other kind of promotion of services, but it really wasn't there. Can I ask what parts of the post you thought read like "legal advice"?

Sam, I don't need this one to go on like a tampon thread or a public bathroom thread. Let's both agree, I made a hasty, judgmental error, my fault. I'll be more careful in the future. Mea culpa.