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nw6675
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So...in the past year my 75 year old mother has started routinely putting her phone on speaker so my Dad can listen in. Does it to me (non local) and my sis (local).
We never are 100% sure if we are on it or if he is listening. I know we could just ask or say take me off speaker if we need a more private conversation, but then it feels weird if we are obviously excluding him.
It is just weird that this started and we can never have a private conversation. And she doesn't like it if we get a chance to privately talk to Dad which is usually only if she's in the shower.
Tonight she wanted to know EVERYTHING about a female related surgery I'm having, the gory details, recovery, etc. I said, "Mom, I would prefer not to discuss on speaker!".
It is just weird to me and my sister and yes, I know I can just have the conversation to politely ask not to/let me know.. I just needed to vent because there have been so many odd changes lately and this just adds to it.
Thanks for listening! And FWIW, we would LOVE to get to chat with my Dad more!
We never are 100% sure if we are on it or if he is listening. I know we could just ask or say take me off speaker if we need a more private conversation, but then it feels weird if we are obviously excluding him.
It is just weird that this started and we can never have a private conversation. And she doesn't like it if we get a chance to privately talk to Dad which is usually only if she's in the shower.
Tonight she wanted to know EVERYTHING about a female related surgery I'm having, the gory details, recovery, etc. I said, "Mom, I would prefer not to discuss on speaker!".
It is just weird to me and my sister and yes, I know I can just have the conversation to politely ask not to/let me know.. I just needed to vent because there have been so many odd changes lately and this just adds to it.
Thanks for listening! And FWIW, we would LOVE to get to chat with my Dad more!