it's a long story but dd(inlaw) went for birth control. unfortunately she is dealing with the county health department.

so her first visit they do nothing but give her an appointment to come back 1 month later for an exam, etc.
so she goes back after 1 month and they don't give an exam, give pregnancy test and script for pills. they tell her to take pills when her next period starts, and come back at next appointment (3 or 4 weeks later), for paragard.
so she's breastfeeding and doesn't get a period before her next appointment. this time she finally has an exam, plus another pregnancy test, but they STILL don't insert the IUD because she hadn't taken the pills. nurse says that no, she wasn't supposed to wait to take the pill until after her period. so she is sent away AGAIN and told to start taking the pills now, regardless if she has a period or not, and come back in 2 weeks for the IUD.
problem is she doesn't want the hormones in the pill, especially while breast feeding. plus i just don't understand the reasoning????? she hasn't taken the pills and wants to just go and lie saying that she's taking it. but i'm worried about that......