xipotec
Grinning Ghosts
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Hey everyone,
My wifes father was just diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer. He has 6 months at most. Being in the medical field I do not think he has that long at all based on his symptoms. Maybe weeks at best.
My wife is extremely close to him and is the only caregiver available since
her other family is out of state.
I just do not know how to help here through this, everything i am doing to help feel meaningless.
Has anyone had experience with PC ? What was the progression? I feel my wife is burning herself out , and its destroying her.
We also had a major trip planned in 2 months , which we paid for, non refundable plane tickets.... I have no idea what to do about that!!
Also i was throwing her a surprise birthday party next month and most of those out of two. People were suppose to come. I am thinking of canceling it because all those people might have to be here for a funeral in a few months if it goes the way most people say it will!!
I could use some perspective from outside !
Thanks DIS
My wifes father was just diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer. He has 6 months at most. Being in the medical field I do not think he has that long at all based on his symptoms. Maybe weeks at best.
My wife is extremely close to him and is the only caregiver available since
her other family is out of state.
I just do not know how to help here through this, everything i am doing to help feel meaningless.
Has anyone had experience with PC ? What was the progression? I feel my wife is burning herself out , and its destroying her.
We also had a major trip planned in 2 months , which we paid for, non refundable plane tickets.... I have no idea what to do about that!!
Also i was throwing her a surprise birthday party next month and most of those out of two. People were suppose to come. I am thinking of canceling it because all those people might have to be here for a funeral in a few months if it goes the way most people say it will!!
I could use some perspective from outside !
Thanks DIS