I am a huge Disney fanactic as well as a over-planner. You are doing the right thing by reading these boards. Just remember everyone is individual, the same thing doesn't work for everyone. We have been going at least once a year since my son turned 3. I spend a great deal of time reading travel books to get ready as well. If you will send me a personal message, I will tell you which ones are the best. There are many experienced travelers on these boards who are more than willing to help you plan. Good luck & congradulations on your first trip. I know it wont be your last!!