I did, and explained what was needed. My child does better waiting in line in a stroller, it feels safe and deters meltdowns.
I have not been the first parent with an Autistic child to be denied a GAC.
It is up to the non-medial professional at the counter to decide, she decided my child look healthy.
But they HAVE the pass to use a stroller as a wheelchair.
If I were in that situation and a CM said that, I would have waited for their supervisor. And theirs. And theirs if needed. I would not, could not, take no as an answer.
And see, that's the thing. She has autism, and her need is to use a stroller as a wheelchair, basically. My cousin's son has autism, and he does not need to use a stroller as a wheelchair, or actually he probably would do really well with that (except he's a big 10 year old now) but his parents couldn't admit it until about 2 years ago. etc. The diagnosis doesn't matter; the need does.
I would have taken that further.
oh but wait....if they only allow wheelchair use, and therefore stroller-as-wheelchair, for those with physical problems walking...but no, I swear I have read of that being a good way to "contain" kids with autism, and protect them, before.
Based on the need to not be in an overly-crowded, noisy, highly stimulating sort of environment, did they come up with any other ideas?
And I'm soooo glad that others agreed with me about the CM; I nearly didn't check back. And I was on my phone at the time so couldn't say all I wanted to say.
I had friends in high school who nearly made it their mission in life to embarrass those around them. Since they tended to make friends with shy people, it doesn't seem like that would be all that fun, since it was SO easy. They liked yelling rude things, weird things, being odd LOUDLY, around people, to make others uncomfortable and to make their friends want to slink away. (10 year reunion, still the same. 20 year reunion, they still tried to do it but we just walked away...whew! they might still be the same, but we aren't!) We were all in theater so we could all "project" our voices to be heard, and we were all a bit goofy, but they really went too far with it quite a lot of the time.
When they would do those things, if we weren't ready to leave the friendship behind, we would just answer and change the subject QUICKLY. Friend yells something highly inappropriate....we say "ha ha, hey how about that SF Giants game last weekend? or "didn't Joe Montana do well in the game?" (obviously I grew up in the Bay Area LOL and it helped that they were massive sports fans) and try to move the conversation away. That's what the reported conversation seemed like to me, just deflection and diversion, but he was brave by showing his disapproval of them trying to use someone else's AP. I kind of doubt the friendship will last much longer if he's telling them he thinks they are cheap. So good for him!