our secret green club? Part 4a

[stinkerbelle's mom]

ohhhhhhh KEWLIES.... I just hit 200 posts.

yipppeeeee!

 

[TaraLee4]

I read all of them. The Suri and Jesus one I was laughing at, the Jesus saved me one I ignored, and the bathroom one was just insane.

i thought the Suri and Jesus one was funny too...then i had to leave because people took it downhill too fast...and the bathroom one...i don't even know what to say about that!

 

[stinkerbelle's mom]

My neice (james mom) went to the drs today. She is READY! Baby Aint! Not till 11/10!!!!!
Yeah James is excited! He already did some Christmas shopping....But know he think he will give her presents to her when she is born!

Do they make Elvis glasses that small? or are they Priscilla glasses?

Atleast he'll have someone to sing to now too!

 

[DISUNC]

Jeeeeeeeeeeez, people are strange. how do you forget your kid? my mom calls my sisters babysitter twice everyday. once, to make sure she gets on the bus, the other, to make sure she got off the bus and that she has everything (my sister has a great knack for 'forgetting' her bookbag )

i don't get people sometimes...

long story short........Mom told 10 year old son to put baby in dads car, since it was dads turn to drop baby off at DC

10 year old put sleeping baby in dads car, and gets in Moms car....they drive off.

Dad gets in car goes to work (not knowing the baby is in back)!

(i can tell you what garbage is in my back seat)

Mom & dad sont talk to each other all day nor do either call the DC provider!
DC dont call either parent to find out where the baby is?

baby dies!

I said it was clearly neglect! Not intentional...but clearly neglect!

 

[DISUNC]

i thought the Suri and Jesus one was funny too...then i had to leave because people took it downhill too fast...and the bathroom one...i don't even know what to say about that!

I gotta check out the bathroom one!

 

[Princess89]

About a month ago I was attacked on a thread. Get aload of this.....A man left his baby in a car all day and it died! They said he had enuf pain and shouldnt be charged!

????????????? I stated that it was the fault of the mom & dad neither called the day care provider durint the day to check in on the baby. Also I thought that it was weird that the DC provider never called either parent to find out where the baby is. (there are way more details)

Anyhow where I work many people with kids in day care, call at least once a day, and some can even check on the web.

Well I had MORE parents yelling at me for saying they were bad parents for not ever calling their Daycare provider! WHEW! it was nasty. I never called anyone a bad parent!


I was really suprised by the amount of people who
1) didnt think it was 'that bad" to leave a baby in a car all day
2) so many people drop their kids off at DC & NEVER check in with them...EVER!

Very sureal, but NNNNNNNNNNNASTY!

As sad as this may be but when DH drops the kids off anywhere. I call him to make sure he dropped them both off, and then I call to see if they are fine at their destination where ever that might be.

We had a similar situation here in NJ where a mother left her baby in the car all day thinking she had dropped the baby at the sitter's house, she decided to take the baby home with her because it was sleeping, when she arrived at home she got out of the car forgetting she never dropped the baby off. Went about her daily business at home, and later realized about the baby a little too late. No charges what so ever were brought against her. Not even a slap on the wrist. She was an Orthodox Jew, and the entire community rallied around her.

If it was an ordinary person without an entire community of support, their kids would be snatched from them quicker than you could blink your eyes. And people would be demanding charges be brought. Maybe not murder charges, but neglect or something.

Do I think it was an accident, yes, but it was also negligent at the same time. Negligence has its consequences too! I could never forget my children, but some people can be very absent minded.

 

[stinkerbelle's mom]

I will ask PD.....I am sorry I have been a bad limey friend and haven't been on the boards. As for my leg... you probably have read about it by now.
Everyone is posting a million mile a minute here.

Hope you feel better soon & don't have to have surgery!

 

[DISUNC]

Do they make Elvis glasses that small? or are they Priscilla glasses?

Atleast he'll have someone to sing to now too!

You know...I am suprised that he never mentioned "Priscilla" as a name!

In fact for the first time in 5 years, he aint gonna be Elvis for Halloween.
It was between Homer Simpson or Zorro.

Zorro won out (cause he has a sword)

 

[stinkerbelle's mom]

Naw you can be the care taker when I am in disney world! Take all the weeks you want just be forwarned about my perfect children when you are drinking all the time!!!!!!!!

I don't drink, I do laundry!!! Hmmmm rowdy kids vs quiet---hmmmmmm! I think I need to do more laundry then it won't matter!

 

[DISUNC]

As sad as this may be but when DH drops the kids off anywhere. I call him to make sure he dropped them both off, and then I call to see if they are fine at their destination where ever that might be.

Not sad at all! ITS WHAT YOU SHOULD BE DOING? Whats the harm with double checking?

 

[stinkerbelle's mom]

Im a DIET PEPSI FREAK all the way!...and YooHoo!

Utahmama get her hands on you?!?!? Yoohoo tootoo!

 

[DISUNC]

As sad as this may be but when DH drops the kids off anywhere. I call him to make sure he dropped them both off, and then I call to see if they are fine at their destination where ever that might be.

We had a similar situation here in NJ where a mother left her baby in the car all day thinking she had dropped the baby at the sitter's house, she decided to take the baby home with her because it was sleeping, when she arrived at home she got out of the car forgetting she never dropped the baby off. Went about her daily business at home, and later realized about the baby a little too late. No charges what so ever were brought against her. Not even a slap on the wrist. She was an Orthodox Jew, and the entire community rallied around her.

If it was an ordinary person without an entire community of support, their kids would be snatched from them quicker than you could blink your eyes. And people would be demanding charges be brought. Maybe not murder charges, but neglect or something.

Do I think it was an accident, yes, but it was also negligent at the same time. Negligence has its consequences too! I could never forget my children, but some people can be very absent minded.

BTW....... I live in PA on the border on NJ in the poconos! Originally from NYC, work in NJ!

 

[DISUNC]

Utahmama get her hands on you?!?!? Yoohoo tootoo!

Thats our common bond!!! Is she the funniest or what?

 

[crossfamily]

Anyone who read your trippy already knows that! Im almost done with it! I really dont want to finish it! sad aint it!

hey I'll do a tr for the limey meet and I am going to DL in Jan with just the 2 little ones so I will have lots more stories to come your way.

 

[kaw1218]

hey I'll do a tr for the limey meet and I am going to DL in Jan with just the 2 little ones so I will have lots more stories to come your way.

More stories yeah!

 

[stinkerbelle's mom]

Presidents weekend in pa! I will already be there with hockey! Then you all can see how crazy my family is and why I am like I am!

As long as everything here is good & it doesn't snow that weekend, I would come.

I'm really sorry we won't be able to come to Richmond --or to W VA with the lemon group!

 

[Princess89]

BTW....... I live in PA on the border on NJ in the poconos! Originally from NYC, work in NJ!

Nice!!! The Poconos are beautiful especially during ski season Then you might have heard the story I was referring to, it happened in Lakewood NJ a few years back.

 

[kaw1218]

As sad as this may be but when DH drops the kids off anywhere. I call him to make sure he dropped them both off, and then I call to see if they are fine at their destination where ever that might be.

We had a similar situation here in NJ where a mother left her baby in the car all day thinking she had dropped the baby at the sitter's house, she decided to take the baby home with her because it was sleeping, when she arrived at home she got out of the car forgetting she never dropped the baby off. Went about her daily business at home, and later realized about the baby a little too late. No charges what so ever were brought against her. Not even a slap on the wrist. She was an Orthodox Jew, and the entire community rallied around her.

If it was an ordinary person without an entire community of support, their kids would be snatched from them quicker than you could blink your eyes. And people would be demanding charges be brought. Maybe not murder charges, but neglect or something.

Do I think it was an accident, yes, but it was also negligent at the same time. Negligence has its consequences too! I could never forget my children, but some people can be very absent minded.

I remember hearing about that...... I think it was negligent too.

 

[crossfamily]

I was thinking maybe a march meet! I am currently free in march. switch between hockey seasons so we are a bit calmer then! Besides I need a new place to vacation!

Wish this game would hurry up I am getting awfully tired. Gotta see the competation though! GO TIGERS! We did it in 4 games!

 

[stinkerbelle's mom]

Not sad at all! ITS WHAT YOU SHOULD BE DOING? Whats the harm with double checking?

I will say, my dh is very good about remembering the kids. He can't remember his wallet, his phone, his keys, his hat, his sunglasses.........., but he does remember the kids. Probably cause he's always sending them back into the house for what he forgot. (again how I got my tag)