First of all, I am so sorry for your loss.
On to the TR - I LOVE how well you write TR's

I especially love the surprise you pulled off on DH and DS. I did something similar in July. My DH actually did not know where we were going until the morning of and didn't know where we were staying till I pulled up to the AKL. Here's the report, in case you care. . . lol!
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1242116&referrerid=&highlight= OH, and btw, DH and I LOVE the smell of the AKL - we always step in and take a deep breath - and say, ahhhhhhh, we're home! (we are VERY attached to the place, it was our first on site resort AND our honeymoon site)
Your trip is soundsing soooo much better than your first with DS. I am so glad you were able to enjoy EE, DH and I LOVE it!
You ladies night out sounded great! Glad you were able to have such a great time! I cannot wait to read the rest.