babyberger
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I need a safe place to post something. I have been following the changes to the GAC program over on the disabilities board. The thread is supposed to be informational and not judgemental, but of course it is. I am tired of hearing that all kids are equal, etc. I am not saying mine deserve more than theirs, but he is different and has different capabilities and needs.
I just want to scream at them....did any of them have to console their child last night that was crying so hard he almost threw up because his sheets have worn out so bad they have a hole in them. He cried for hours and said he felt like he was losing his best friend and said if someone offered him a million diamonds or his sheets back to the way they were he would choose his sheets. His world was ending last night and nothing I said or did could make it better. Does their child freak out and start bolting when they are accidentally knocked in line? Do voices and smells send their children into full meltdowns? Have they spent years of occupational therapy so their child can stand the sound of a flushing toilet? Is their child pulled out art, music, PE, so they can go to social skills group and learn how to function in everyday life? Does their child need an aid at school just to make it through a day?
Now tell me how my child is no different than all the other nuero typical children who don't want to want to wait in line either. I am not abusing the GAC system, I was using it so my child could enjoy Disney. Before we knew about the GAC we had stopped going to Disney because it was impossible with him. Now tell me how taking away the GAC has made a fair and level playing ground for everyone???
I'm sorry I needed to get it off my chest but really didn't feeling with flaming and backlash.
Thank you for letting me vent in our safe place!!!
HUGS
Melissa
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I just want to scream at them....did any of them have to console their child last night that was crying so hard he almost threw up because his sheets have worn out so bad they have a hole in them. He cried for hours and said he felt like he was losing his best friend and said if someone offered him a million diamonds or his sheets back to the way they were he would choose his sheets. His world was ending last night and nothing I said or did could make it better. Does their child freak out and start bolting when they are accidentally knocked in line? Do voices and smells send their children into full meltdowns? Have they spent years of occupational therapy so their child can stand the sound of a flushing toilet? Is their child pulled out art, music, PE, so they can go to social skills group and learn how to function in everyday life? Does their child need an aid at school just to make it through a day?
Now tell me how my child is no different than all the other nuero typical children who don't want to want to wait in line either. I am not abusing the GAC system, I was using it so my child could enjoy Disney. Before we knew about the GAC we had stopped going to Disney because it was impossible with him. Now tell me how taking away the GAC has made a fair and level playing ground for everyone???
I'm sorry I needed to get it off my chest but really didn't feeling with flaming and backlash.
Thank you for letting me vent in our safe place!!!
HUGS
Melissa
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We may have 2 extra bedrooms, so c'mon over y'all RCers!!! Mom is up to her tricks, so appropriate for October... just sayin'
We'll see.
I spent yesterday finishing up the belt for my costume. It's hilariously bad, and if you're familiar with Adventure Time, I'll be going as Earl of Lemongrab. CRIPES! Reminds me, I need to buy our tickets.



she opted to go to school for a bit and I was able to get her a dr appt at 10:45am so need to get her for that and make sure it's not an ear infection.
Just wanted to share what another mom wrote on a TR I am following, makes you realize what's important. I will post a link but here is a quote from her that made me cry. "BUT. Bottom line is that we discussed it and it's really important to our family to finish our trip. Those 12 days we spend in September at Disney aren't just 12 days at some amusement park. Those days are the days where the 5 of us remember why we love each other so gosh darn much. (At home sometimes it's easier to forget) They are the days where we all smile till our face hurts and we put away our laptops and email. We eat too much ice cream and then eat some more. It's where we take all of the pictures that we will pull out someday and look at and be so glad we took them. It's where Daddy takes his little girls out to dinner in a castle and where the boy and I go on dates and share a sundae and a movie on the beach. It's where the girls and I will have Afternoon Tea in our best clothes, while the boys eat chili dogs. It's where I don't have anything to do BUT listen and talk and enjoy. It's the place where I'm the mom I want to be all the time, but sometimes the stress of life gets in the way. It's the place that we are a family the best. " . Here is a link...
Janet: Where are you, oh lovely one?!
Are the germs gone from the kiddos? Did you break the news of the new reservation yet?
Sheila: The pink is SO pretty! If it weren't for Miss M nabbing that color, I'd have gone for it too. (Or purple if it existed). Candace: BC?!
Well, you know how I feel about that.
to GG, Ginny, Koh, Magic and Trish. 
Stupid football last night. We had to make sure the Giants lost.
Our DVR is piling up fast.


(Treehouse villas guys)