I am so sorry you had to go through all that trial and error but so grateful you finally have an answer so that you can work from there! I hope your DS is doing better and good for you on pushing the issue!
Thanks so much for the support! It's hard to butt heads with DH about this issue, but we always hold on to the fact we want what's best for her, even if our ideas differ. Luckily, he agrees this can't hurt anything and might just help. *fingers crossed*
Thanks so much! I am 'fortunate' in that I have substitute taught in DD's school pretty extensively and get along VERY well with the Special Education teachers. Because of that experience, I understand the ridiculous processes needed for IEPs and special circumstances. ((I find some of them ridiculous and hate how much teachers' hands have been tied lately, but I at least know them)). I may take you up on your offer to talk... we go in to see the doc with her first set of forms in 2 weeks, so I'm hoping it won't be a battle. *sighs*
Reading this made me smile! You ladies are just amazing and I love the support you have for each other! Great group of ch-ch-changers!

TOTALLY wonderful post! Just so touching and meaningful.

I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and know how much your message touched so many!
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I am thankful for so many things - and this last year has taught me to truly appreciate what I have. 2 years ago I was told my hip was too bad to have another child but I found surgeons who worked their magic and took me from not being able to walk more than a block to taking on Disney 8 weeks post-op (admittedly with a cane, but still!). Nine months after surgery, they gave the all-okay and now I have my wonderful little Peanut and my eldest DD has a chance to be the big sister she always wanted to be. She came 2 months early but was as tenacious as her momma and is doing wonderfully!
Unfortunately, it's more surgery for me but I now know I can make it through and reading all the issues everyone here is dealing with and how strong they are makes me realize not only are you all a support network but you help everyone else find their own strength.
In a sense, we can't make up our minds, but once we do it's GAME ON!!!!