Hi hun,
I went with my mum and dad a few years ago and did every thing seaworld universal island of adventure disney shopping and busch gardens never again needed a holiday when we got back we are planiing to just go to disney when we go next year as we are staying on site and staying off site on another trip and doing the other parks
I deffintly wouldnt do too much you dont want to put either of your selfs off going back by doing to much dont forget you got jet lag to cope with when you get home as well as a busy two weeks if you do all that
and stayin at AKL you def want to make the most of stayin by the pool a few times