Here there were a few locals who offered to show us a way to climb up onto the facade for $ but we declined. I'm not sure how much they were asking for. Others were offering to take pics for a tip, and there were some small children trying to sell postcards as well.
We climbed up some rocks across the way and found a young boy doing an entire photoshoot for some women. We were getting a little annoyed as they were taking so long, but we were also hot and so we just sat down and watched for awhile.
Eventually they went to the other side of some rocks and... I'm not sure exactly what happened but there was some kind of argument about payment. It seemed to be resolving itself, when suddenly the man who had been with the women, without dropping his kind demeanor and smile, suddenly grabbed the boy by the collar of his shirt and hit him. He, again with a sweet voice, told the boy he can't take advantage of the ladies and to leave them alone. For us it was extremely tense as we are not used to that AT ALL, but the women were laughing... I both felt sorry for the boy and not at all surprised when he simply moved on to the next group of tourists.
Our kitty guide we'd picked up below came with us up to "the best view of the monastery".
Up top there was a little cafe set up, but no one was working it. At 9:30 there still weren't enough folk around to make it worth it I guess.... they do say the best lighting here is in the afternoon, so clearly they know what they're doing. We were glad to be able to look around without the shopkeeper at our heels.
We had many options... as we came down the elderly woman had made it to the top and yelled at us where her shop was in this maze...
I was willing to head over there, as I felt we owed her... friendly banter?... some patronage but Kyle said no way, we don't owe her anything. I still feel a little bad about it, but I know he is right...
Sights seen, and then some, we made the trip back down. Now that I wasn't locked in on getting to the top, I looked around more at the wares. Always at a clip though, as I had no intention of buying.
I did see one scarf that I did like, at the top, but I thought nah I'll see something I like better anyway, and I didn't want to have to barter with them anyway. There were no clear prices... and I don't do well in that kind of scenario.
Now that it was later and there was a trickle of tourists coming up the vendors were getting a bit more insistent. My no shokran was met with protestations that women should help each other, support a woman's shop! They were mostly run by women all the way down, anyway! A simple no shokran was becoming two or three before they would stop, and now they were staring me in the eye to boot instead of being disinterested. They would call after me, "what can we do with a no shokran?? Nothing! It cannot buy anything! What do I do with that?"
I was still doing okay until we were most of the way down the trail when it happened... I snapped. At one spot I had a lady grow angry with me, and she said "you said you would stop! You said later..! Now it is later! You lied! Why did you say you would stop and then not?!"
I. Lost. It. And it was so stupid of me. I raised my voice and turned back to her, and said "NO I DID NOT. Do NOT say that! All the way up, all the way down, no shokran no shokran! I've said it every single time, do not lie to ME!" with some arm waving I was so frustrated. She just smirked and said nothing more and we continued on.
Those two incidents are small, but they REALLY got to me. The sheer number of vendors in the 3-5km (rt) trail are staggering, even with many of the shops unoccupied in winter. I don't think you'd get any kind of break if it were summer, I really don't. I don't like thinking kindness is fake, but you know it is. I know it is. They know it is. That a little old lady plays me, and I get called a liar still makes me mad and sad.
More from this day is coming, but it is growing late, and I need to start winding down.