badblackpug
<font color=blue>If you knew her you would be shoc
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This is inspired by another thread where parents were complaining about school projects. I don't have an issue with projects, per se. I think thay can be a good experience. My issue is with the parents who "do" their childrens' projects for them. I refuse to actually do my kids' projects. I will offer suggestions or advice, but will not do the actual work. As a result my kids projects are not as "polished" as some of their classmates. My daughter always gets good grades on her project because I think the teacher is fair and grades on effort and understanding, but my question to teacher is this:
What do you do when you know a project was "done" by a parent, or at the very least the parent had a very heavy hand in "helping?" (I see so many projects that are so obviously above the abilities of the child)
Do these projects tend to score better?
How do you handle the other children who are embarassed about the "quality" of their projects? (you know, the kids who obviously did their own, feeling inferior to the more polished project)
Do you ever confront children or parents about the amount of "help" they received?
My daughter did a project this year on rainforests and conservation. She learned a lot, but her project looked like it was done by a 5th grader (she is a 5th grader) She got an "A" because she put in a lot of effort, and completed all the required tasks, and then some, for the project, but it was not of the "quality" that some of the other kids' projects were. It seemed more childish, less polished, but, in my opinion, age appropriate. A good number of the projects looked like they were done by the parents. I understand that some children are brighter, or more artistic, but some just semed so "over the top."
Thoughts?
What do you do when you know a project was "done" by a parent, or at the very least the parent had a very heavy hand in "helping?" (I see so many projects that are so obviously above the abilities of the child)
Do these projects tend to score better?
How do you handle the other children who are embarassed about the "quality" of their projects? (you know, the kids who obviously did their own, feeling inferior to the more polished project)
Do you ever confront children or parents about the amount of "help" they received?
My daughter did a project this year on rainforests and conservation. She learned a lot, but her project looked like it was done by a 5th grader (she is a 5th grader) She got an "A" because she put in a lot of effort, and completed all the required tasks, and then some, for the project, but it was not of the "quality" that some of the other kids' projects were. It seemed more childish, less polished, but, in my opinion, age appropriate. A good number of the projects looked like they were done by the parents. I understand that some children are brighter, or more artistic, but some just semed so "over the top."
Thoughts?
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A small number will lie.
are unbelievable. ...and the projects seem so more involved then when we were kids. I remember doing diorama's and book reports...but jeesh these things take so much more time and research, they will be writing textbooks by high school!
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