OT:Potty Training

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DD is showing more and more signs that she is ready to potty train and I am lost on what to do next. Are there any good books out there I can read that will help me understand better how to help her potty train or tips from other parents?

Thanks,
Margaux
 
Hi there...I'll tell you what we did with my stepson TJ. It's really about a TON of praise and lots of juice boxes!!! We picked a day to devote to "Potty Day". We told TJ it was Potty Day and introduced a doll called "TJ". Oh WOW, the same as our "big boy" TJ and he was trying to go on the potty too...well we kept asking both TJ's if they wanted to try to go on the big boy potty, and when dolly TJ decided he wanted to try and went on the potty, oh my goodness we had a PARTY!!! Balloons and streamers came out. TJ Doll got his big boy undies and we were so proud of him. Big boy TJ gave TJ doll hugs and kisses and we made a big to do over it. Big Boy TJ understood that when he went on the potty he'd get a party too!!! (It's about getting that first time on the potty...after that, there is still TONS of praise but not a huge party!) Since we'd OVER hydrated TJ it wasn't long before he wanted to try too. We had a HUGE party for him...well it was just his dad and I and his sister, but we called Grandma and Grandpa and everyone he knew! :rotfl: It seriously took one day...after that initial hoopla, it was just consistent praise. Once he went potty on the potty once, diapers were gone. He was in big boy undies. If he had an accident he was not comfortable in wet pants and that further helped the cause of potty training. If he wet his pants we didn't scold him we just acknowledged how yucky it felt to be in wet stinky pants. He got it. It was as simple as that. For the next couple of weeks we had a chart next to the potty and every time he went he got to choose a sticker and when he got to the end of the row he got to pick out some candy (aka Fruit snacks) from the prize box. (Also, we didn't give him a choice as to when he went. He HAD to sit on the potty after he got up in the morning until he went. We then had him try every hour for the first couple of days just to get him into the habit, but we never asked him IF he wanted to go. It was "Time to go potty" period. He also HAD to go before we got into the car. We also had his sister go just to drive home that everyone goes potty before we get into the car!!) After a while rewards weren't necessary and he was just a big boy in his big boy pants. We never had much issue with bed wetting either, but you can use pull ups at first, but the same rule always applied...wow, being in a wet smelly bed isn't fun is it? (It's a pain for us initially having to wake up and change sheets, but it gave him a lot more ownership over his choices and potty training)

okay so that is what worked for us. All kids are different, but this worked on five other kids in his daycare as well! We were popular with parents for a while!! ;)

Good luck!!!! :cheer2:
 
MisyPrissy- Thanks so much for the ideas. I think I'm going to take DD shopping for some Big Girl Undies and let her pick out which ones she likes so she feels like she has a choice in those and it's a big deal also to get a potty doll since I keep hearing it's a good thing to help the process. I'm going to try the big party and praise and remember hearing that a lot on boards and even Dr. Phils method had that too if I remember right.

Thanks for the tips!!
 
My son is almost three, and we are at the end of our potty training stage. I agree with MissyPrissy. We also celebrated when he would go. We didn't break out the streamers, but there was a lot of singing and dancing. I know some people would disagree with this, and it was not my favorite thing, but, somehow, we started rewarding him with Skittles, so that is still what he asks for (but now it is only for #2.) When you do decide to put your daughter in big-girl underpants, it is important to not go back to diapers. It would just confuse her. And, she most likely will have accidents. It will be frustrating at times, but be patient, just put on some dry pants and don't make a big deal of it. When I first put my son in underpants, I took him to the potty about every 15 minutes and then stretched out the time from there. But, like MissyPrissy, I didn't ask him if he had to go- I just took him. Good luck and have fun!
 

Oh yes, I am a BIG Dr.Phil fan...but I SWEAR to you, that man got his Potty Day Party idea from me!!! ;) I was watching the show that day and and TJ said to me from across the room..."Look, that Bald Man does Potty Day parties too! When do you get to be on TV?" :rotfl: TJ thinks I'm famous! Of course Dr.Phil added the HUGE deal of Thomas the Tank Engine calling the little boy...our TJ is actually named after Thomas the Tank Engine (his sister picked it out when she was three...) And TJ saw that and said..."Thomas can't us a telephone...he doesn't have any HANDS!" I was relieved that he didn't want to know why Thomas didn't call him! Nice Touch though Dr.Phil... ;)
 
The Potty Book for Girls and It's Time to Pee helped us. We also did a sticker chart. Every time she went on the potty she got to put a sticker on the chart (Disney characters of course). Big girl underwear too. Oh yeah and a little peer pressure helped too! And a lot of patience!
 


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